07-11-2014, 05:42 PM
(07-11-2014, 05:14 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:Great points, Sarge.(07-11-2014, 04:54 PM)Nationwide Wrote:(07-11-2014, 04:33 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Oh, what a shame. Still, money fuels the fire, eh? lol
Though we'd like to believe differently, the women in the United States are not that different from the ones in the Philippines. All women love resources.
Remember that speech Tony Montana gave in Scarface? “In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.” I've revolted against that philosophy my entire life.
Unfortunately, I was in error. Tony's right.
Interestingly, AM has really brought this to the forefront of my awareness.
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Yeah they do for a "provider", but there's another category, where they just have sex with the guy because he's sexy.
Don't get me wrong: money is good. BUT, you don't want to be a provider. Black Dragon himself even falsifies his dating profiles (by not putting as much as he ACTUALLY makes on it) for the purpose of keeping gold diggers away.
My point is: don't try to get rich for women, you'll still be in society's "game". Instead: get money and women for yourself, and do with them as you please!
In fact, there's another site I go to it's called "Good Looking Loser". The guy is super successful, and is almost 40 now I think. Anyhow, he has a friend who still lives at home and brings home girls, and walks them up to his room right past his mom lol. Not too rich, I don't think.
He says all you need to get laid is to be above AVERAGE in Looks, Social Freedom, and a few other things.
In my opinion, you just have to be able to DO it. Approach, get date, escalate, and get laid. Have the balls and know-how to do, and you CAN do.
Would you have sex with a SUPER hot girl who was dirt poor? Probably. Women aren't that much different than us. They see a guy they like, that's all there is to it.
Heck man, when I had a girl going crazy over me one time, I was flaunting my poverty like my ragged coat, while building up her boyfriend that she kept bringing up. 2 weeks later, she recognized me in a store and freaked out lol.
It certainly wasn't my "resources".
And I agree with what your saying.
But money affords a person more options in life. I want those options. And I don't want to pretend they're not important anymore. I've done that all my life and I ended up homeless and sleeping in my pickup at a Walmart.
I will always, from here on out, be a provider, but I will provide for myself...not leaches that depend on others for sustenance.
Thanks for the thoughtful response. I love it when my ideas are challenged.
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