12-04-2010, 01:31 PM
Yes ron.. I've noticed your mindset in that post seemed a little needy... focus on yourself and how you would feel if you gave it up to her. is she worth it? You need to think I can have any other girl.. why this one. I'm not one to say a whole lot but I personally am getting a better sense of myself and am learning to let go of everything. Then the indifference comes and that's what really turns women on. I feel like at the end of this journey for me I'll have women making the first move on me then all I have to do is lead her to the bedroom. I think when you learn to relax in the moment like ryan said.. everything will just happen. You'll just start saying things that you never thought you'd even say or she'll just keep talking.. you'll get so annoyed (say after 10 minutes of her blabbing about something) just tell her to kiss you. Back in the day It would have taken me alot of balls to do that.. but I've started to have dreams wehre women come to me and want to make out with me..a nd then I'm the one saying this isn't such a good idea. I kind of learned from this is that this is what will be happening to me in the near future. and If I want a girl bad enough and I know it's there.. It would be my pleasure to let her make the first move. I would say "Kiss me". That is after the sexual tension has built up and you just know it. This is just a technique I've seen in some movies and I've started visualizing about this technique. It's fun man 
But what it all boils down to it.. relax, let go, and enjoy the moment. See the natural beauty within her and like Ryan said.. this allows you to just be with her and it's like you've been friends forever. She'll practically fall in love with you.
Maybe if you could elaborate on where you are in the relationship with this specific girl? If you havn't taken her out... just casually offer to get lunch together to chat about whatever. I personally would do what cory does and just give out your number to a bunch of women or pick up girls with the eye game in a club or something lol.
But what it all boils down to it.. relax, let go, and enjoy the moment. See the natural beauty within her and like Ryan said.. this allows you to just be with her and it's like you've been friends forever. She'll practically fall in love with you.
Maybe if you could elaborate on where you are in the relationship with this specific girl? If you havn't taken her out... just casually offer to get lunch together to chat about whatever. I personally would do what cory does and just give out your number to a bunch of women or pick up girls with the eye game in a club or something lol.
