06-28-2014, 03:45 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-28-2014, 03:46 AM by MasterEnki.)
It sounds like my friends when I use to go out with them at night.
Now-a-days:
I haven't been out for several years now (except one of my friend's wedding about 18 months ago).
Honestly, going out sucks!!!
I find sitting around drinking, etc. just pointless and pathetic. It bores the hell out of me.
I spend my time working, studying and watching my favourite shows / the occasion video game.
I see my friends about 1-2 days a month on average, and only in the daytime.
Just observing the culture of going out (night time) is painful to me. It grates my intellect!!!
It is, for the most part, a bunch of idiots doing stupid things and trying to justify their idiotic behavior with a bunch of bullsh!t.
Petty conflicts / superiority games are just a manifestation of such a negative / egotistical culture (the culture of going out).
In my mind, it doesn't matter how 'alpha' one is,
The whole experience of going out (at night) will be the same, just as pointless, petty and intellectually-deprived.
Everyone has their 'element type'. My is at work / career.
I love socializing at work. The people are somewhat intelligent and open-minded, and discussions are kept civil and respectful.
But socializing at pubs, clubs, bars, taverns, etc. = Me wanting to bash my head against a brickwall out of frustration!!
Once I stopped going out with my friends at night, and only seeing them in the day, every so often,
I lost some of my friends. But 4 of them remain my friends, and more-or-less accept my decision.
Self-improvement will most likely change who is attracted to you.
Having 'higher' / positive values will repel those with 'lower' / negative values.
Once one starts to develop respect / integrity, those that are lying, cheating, dishonest, under-handing, corrupted, self-serving, arrogant, etc. will be repelled.
Law of Attraction states that like-attracts-like, and repels the opposite.
@ Benjamin
Maybe your friend has lower values and is, at least subconsciously, picking up on your new higher values, and is becoming repelled by you.
Now-a-days:
I haven't been out for several years now (except one of my friend's wedding about 18 months ago).
Honestly, going out sucks!!!
I find sitting around drinking, etc. just pointless and pathetic. It bores the hell out of me.
I spend my time working, studying and watching my favourite shows / the occasion video game.
I see my friends about 1-2 days a month on average, and only in the daytime.
Just observing the culture of going out (night time) is painful to me. It grates my intellect!!!
It is, for the most part, a bunch of idiots doing stupid things and trying to justify their idiotic behavior with a bunch of bullsh!t.
Petty conflicts / superiority games are just a manifestation of such a negative / egotistical culture (the culture of going out).
In my mind, it doesn't matter how 'alpha' one is,
The whole experience of going out (at night) will be the same, just as pointless, petty and intellectually-deprived.
Everyone has their 'element type'. My is at work / career.
I love socializing at work. The people are somewhat intelligent and open-minded, and discussions are kept civil and respectful.
But socializing at pubs, clubs, bars, taverns, etc. = Me wanting to bash my head against a brickwall out of frustration!!
Once I stopped going out with my friends at night, and only seeing them in the day, every so often,
I lost some of my friends. But 4 of them remain my friends, and more-or-less accept my decision.
Self-improvement will most likely change who is attracted to you.
Having 'higher' / positive values will repel those with 'lower' / negative values.
Once one starts to develop respect / integrity, those that are lying, cheating, dishonest, under-handing, corrupted, self-serving, arrogant, etc. will be repelled.
Law of Attraction states that like-attracts-like, and repels the opposite.
@ Benjamin
Maybe your friend has lower values and is, at least subconsciously, picking up on your new higher values, and is becoming repelled by you.
