06-27-2014, 01:26 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-27-2014, 01:42 PM by TheChosenOne.)
(06-27-2014, 12:21 PM)sebastian Wrote: It's difficult to say really something without knowing you both in real life. However, for me it looks like he is insecure and makes you down for that reason. Real alpha doesn't need to make people down. I don't know why he doesn't do it with other people. Maybe he feels superior to them, maybe because he feels inferior to them. But if he didn't do it in the past you probably grown personally and he is not used to the fact that you are the way you actually are.
Very True!! Subconsciously people "pick up" on your growth & development and in the past I had that same pattern like clockwork with all my friends...
Now, I have to be around people that are willing to "grow and develop" and even if they are insecure or whatever, as long as they're willing to develop, that pattern doesn't occur....and if I put myself in that situation (unknowingly), I take 100 % responsibility for my choices...
The irony of it is that it may make you feel a little disloyal or like you're not being a true friend, guilty or that there is something wrong with you....there isn't (although you will tend to have conflicting emotions telling you otherwise)
