06-25-2014, 11:54 AM
(06-25-2014, 11:11 AM)Alta Wrote: I like to do things in my own time and on my own terms, I'm not someone who likes to always be the center of attention and who has to involve everyone in the things I do. I'd just like to have more confidence, poise and authority with my own way of doing things. I think Shannon mentioned that there are different types of alpha male and perhaps the type I've described above is the stereotypical "jock" type. There tends to be a lot of this sort where I live and I find them very annoying and they get the women of course, but this is probably just down to their confidence.
I think you will a center of attention if you do AM6, at least more than before. People who are successful are a center of attention.
Of course everyone is a different Alpha and you don't have to yell to be an Alpha quiet the opposite in fact. It's the attitude, you don't force things, they come naturally to you instead.
An alpha is a leader so he will involve people in things he will do like an entrepreneur. But he will not destroy other people in the process.
I think you can read some thread about this, you are not the first to ask this. You can read the book "how to become an Alpha Male" to have a clear understanding. Shannon use this book as a definition to the AM sub so you consciously know how you should behave.