06-19-2014, 12:46 PM
(06-19-2014, 09:39 AM)Nationwide Wrote: Men want to be accepted by women, and the ultimate token is sex. After all, a woman will not have sex with someone they don't accept. This is what gives women power; the ability to grant or withhold acceptance.
So how do you disarm women? By not requiring acceptance from them. Instead, practice self acceptance. When you master self-acceptance instead of relying on acceptance from women you kill neediness. Neediness makes nice guys, while independence creates attraction, so...
...kill the needy nice guy by practicing self-acceptance.
There.
Love it. Although, I'd say women sleep with guys they don't accept all the time, just look around at any typical relationship. I think, as an addition to what you're saying, guys who aren't good with women THINK that women only sleep with those they accept, therefore they pursue ACCEPTANCE rather than sex, and get into the weird mind sets of "nice guy" and beyond.
How old are you, btw?
(06-19-2014, 09:56 AM)LionKing Wrote: Though I could see the other rabbit hole: "I can't go out/do X yet, because I still have some negative beliefs".
I've been wondering about this one myself, actually. Much in line with my "AM/SM" debate. Maybe I think I need something before I go ahead with SM, but maybe it's just a limiting belief? Maybe it ALL is, and we just need to clear those away and be pussy-bound... something to think about.
