02-06-2014, 07:53 PM
Stage 4, Day 3
Good day. I'm realizing that I connect very easily, but I don't have that much chemistry with girls, even though I've approached them.
Then I read Shannon's thing about Natural Grounding, and that I shouldn't use it. Thankfully, I only used it a lot during the third stage, so I'll stop as of now. Modified my morning ritual, and it now gives me 5 minutes more time for each of the three languages I'm learning. Sweet! I'll learn a 1/3 faster (over 15 minutes original time).
Btw, this whole stage sounds like it's secretly called "meet more women and get them interested in you", cause I am getting some more attention in general.
That whole thing got me thinking about the "rules" of dating. I actually think it's the Brent Smith camp that is fucking me up right now. It's almost as though you have to hide that you're interested, and if you show interest, then you lose, so to speak. At least, you can't act upon interest, which means that I would have to be incongruent to not act out of it.
Just like I decided for New Years not to cover up emotions, I will now show the interest that I have to women that I'm attracted to, either verbally or not verbally, and I will do something to push the interaction forward. I'd like some advice on this
Thoughts?
Good day. I'm realizing that I connect very easily, but I don't have that much chemistry with girls, even though I've approached them.
Then I read Shannon's thing about Natural Grounding, and that I shouldn't use it. Thankfully, I only used it a lot during the third stage, so I'll stop as of now. Modified my morning ritual, and it now gives me 5 minutes more time for each of the three languages I'm learning. Sweet! I'll learn a 1/3 faster (over 15 minutes original time).
Btw, this whole stage sounds like it's secretly called "meet more women and get them interested in you", cause I am getting some more attention in general.
That whole thing got me thinking about the "rules" of dating. I actually think it's the Brent Smith camp that is fucking me up right now. It's almost as though you have to hide that you're interested, and if you show interest, then you lose, so to speak. At least, you can't act upon interest, which means that I would have to be incongruent to not act out of it.
Just like I decided for New Years not to cover up emotions, I will now show the interest that I have to women that I'm attracted to, either verbally or not verbally, and I will do something to push the interaction forward. I'd like some advice on this
Thoughts?
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