Alpha Female 2011 4G

[Shannon]

Thanks Shannon, I appreciate your suggestions!

The growth you have experienced is very likely to be permanent. Growth along those lines from AM/AF usually is.

I'm very glad that the growth is permanent! What kind of growth would you classify this? It helps my understanding and growth

Generally, the more permanent growth appears to be growth that results in increased maturity and achieving a different level of understanding and awareness. For instance, when I started AM way back in the day, I was literally a doormat to my girlfriend. Now, that is quite impossible... I simply cannot go back, because I have outgrown that "box" and I am a different man now. Now, I will be single before I will allow any woman to mistreat me, and I give myself what I need. Back then, I was desperate for a woman's attentions, validation, approval and affections. I outgrew that. I cannot go back; the effects are permanent.

I am a leader now. I don't fit in the box of "follower" anymore... I am a man now. I don't fit in the box of "little boy" anymore. And so on. Those types of growth are permanent. The rest, they can become permanent.