Stage 3, Day 13
Got up, morning ritual, gym, lunch all before 10:30am. I met with a friend to study; but she was late compared to the time she initially said she'd be at the library (10am), and also at the time that she claimed she would pass by my place (11:45). We arrive at the actual building at 12:10, AND THEN she wants to get coffee. She had class at 1, I had the entire day off. I was not very impressed. I'm starting to get ansy at people who don't respect my time.
I've decided to call that time you waste in waiting for someone "anticipitory limbo", because you're calibrating your actions based on what you expect another person to do.
After that, I mostly got caught up on my school-work, and finished designing my 2nd hour for my music practice.
My productivity started to shoot down around 2-4pm. I decided to run "Hypersleep" Power Nap around 4:15. I did fall asleep, but I slept past the time until 5:05. I wonder if that's intentional. But I did feel groggy and a bit cranky.
At the gym, I met a woman on the treadmill, and chatted her up rather directly. She was very receptive to it; honestly, I got a semi-erection and had to hide it, I don't know if she saw that.
I was about to get kicked off the treadmill, since someone had actually signed up for the treadmill I was using, so I basically went for Facebook information. While she wrote it, and I pulled a David DeAngelo "go ahead and write your phone number down as well". Smooth.. she goes for it.
That was surprisingly easy. I don't know how interested she is. Especially now that I'm getting numbers, I have to know what to do with it. I feel like a dog chasing cars (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSkWrpH3H3Q).
The weird thing is that I don't really care that I got the number; I practically forgot all about it through most of the day.
I feel like I'm wasting a lot of time, in the form of a lot of YouTube watching. My will-power is dedicated on these new habits. So I'll have more on tap by February for sure
Got up, morning ritual, gym, lunch all before 10:30am. I met with a friend to study; but she was late compared to the time she initially said she'd be at the library (10am), and also at the time that she claimed she would pass by my place (11:45). We arrive at the actual building at 12:10, AND THEN she wants to get coffee. She had class at 1, I had the entire day off. I was not very impressed. I'm starting to get ansy at people who don't respect my time.
I've decided to call that time you waste in waiting for someone "anticipitory limbo", because you're calibrating your actions based on what you expect another person to do.
After that, I mostly got caught up on my school-work, and finished designing my 2nd hour for my music practice.
My productivity started to shoot down around 2-4pm. I decided to run "Hypersleep" Power Nap around 4:15. I did fall asleep, but I slept past the time until 5:05. I wonder if that's intentional. But I did feel groggy and a bit cranky.
At the gym, I met a woman on the treadmill, and chatted her up rather directly. She was very receptive to it; honestly, I got a semi-erection and had to hide it, I don't know if she saw that.
I was about to get kicked off the treadmill, since someone had actually signed up for the treadmill I was using, so I basically went for Facebook information. While she wrote it, and I pulled a David DeAngelo "go ahead and write your phone number down as well". Smooth.. she goes for it.
That was surprisingly easy. I don't know how interested she is. Especially now that I'm getting numbers, I have to know what to do with it. I feel like a dog chasing cars (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSkWrpH3H3Q).
The weird thing is that I don't really care that I got the number; I practically forgot all about it through most of the day.
I feel like I'm wasting a lot of time, in the form of a lot of YouTube watching. My will-power is dedicated on these new habits. So I'll have more on tap by February for sure
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