Right... call them out on it (in a fun loving way of course, don't want to bite at them, lol)
To further write about my recap of stage 1, I realized how far I have come in just a short time. One being my neediness being crushed big time (not 100% gone but very close!) and detaching from outcomes. I've also caught myself saying more brash things and not caring much for what others think about what I say (which is a liberating experience I can tell ya!)
Case in point:
I was at Hoots again after salsa class and told my waitress about one of my naughty fantasies: you know those short beds they have in JCPenney that they have their nice linens on for show? They would be a good place to make out with a girl (the risk of being caught, lol). So she has a similar story that she told me with one of her boyf's. Not going into details but it was very similar. So we had something to talk about! lol
Then we told each other some jokes (some rather racy but I was comfortable telling them). After I got out of there, I spotted some pretty black girls and asked them if they were enjoying themselves. That was kinda automatic and in the past, I would have lacked the confidence to approach and ask a group of girls if they had fun. They were very receptive and me and the girls went our separate ways after chatting a bit.
Be4 Hoots, I was at the salsa class (held at a public library in a conference room) and as I walk into the library's front doors, some teenage girls started and kept looking at me and giggling. I was very amused by their antics. I was thinking, geez, I'm old enough to be your dad or something. I went on about my business.
It's amazing what happens when one does away with neediness and does his own thing. A harbinger of things to come!
@ Shannon,
I'm definitely using Alpha by itself. I dropped the other sub about 3 weeks ago. And I may just use AM 100% the rest of the way through. I doubt I need the other attraction subs now.
To further write about my recap of stage 1, I realized how far I have come in just a short time. One being my neediness being crushed big time (not 100% gone but very close!) and detaching from outcomes. I've also caught myself saying more brash things and not caring much for what others think about what I say (which is a liberating experience I can tell ya!)
Case in point:
I was at Hoots again after salsa class and told my waitress about one of my naughty fantasies: you know those short beds they have in JCPenney that they have their nice linens on for show? They would be a good place to make out with a girl (the risk of being caught, lol). So she has a similar story that she told me with one of her boyf's. Not going into details but it was very similar. So we had something to talk about! lol
Then we told each other some jokes (some rather racy but I was comfortable telling them). After I got out of there, I spotted some pretty black girls and asked them if they were enjoying themselves. That was kinda automatic and in the past, I would have lacked the confidence to approach and ask a group of girls if they had fun. They were very receptive and me and the girls went our separate ways after chatting a bit.
Be4 Hoots, I was at the salsa class (held at a public library in a conference room) and as I walk into the library's front doors, some teenage girls started and kept looking at me and giggling. I was very amused by their antics. I was thinking, geez, I'm old enough to be your dad or something. I went on about my business.
It's amazing what happens when one does away with neediness and does his own thing. A harbinger of things to come!
@ Shannon,
I'm definitely using Alpha by itself. I dropped the other sub about 3 weeks ago. And I may just use AM 100% the rest of the way through. I doubt I need the other attraction subs now.
Get your pickles!!!
