10-28-2013, 07:23 AM
(10-27-2013, 06:52 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: So I could even say "Oh! Well, I like other music too" so long as it's not because I want to impress her, right?
You can say any words you want as long as you're not trying to impress her. It's not about what you say, but how you say it. Most people agree with other people to try and avoid conflict. Conflict creates tension. Tension feeds emotion. For guys, we don't care much for emotion. Girls, on the other hand, crave emotion.
What you said is perfectly fine. I would say that you are missing out on a huge opportunity to create tension with a woman.
Lets take for an example that I'm a beautiful woman. Do you think there are any shortage of guys around that agree with me? I could offer my opinion on anything and most guys are going to agree (in an attempt to gain rapport). If one guy doesn't agree with me then he is going to stand out in my mind.
I'm not saying that you should go out and disagree with every hot woman, but, if you don't agree with what they say then use it as an opportunity to build tension. Bust a joke on them. "Oh, I always knew you were such a goodie two shoes! You probably like the backstreet boys, don't you?"
Say that with a little smirk on your face and you are golden. Be prepared to get back what you are giving too. This is my style. You have your own style that might be different. I've always been a bit of a smart-ass and that is what works for me.