10-07-2013, 06:57 PM
Roy, congratulations on such wonderful progress. 
Here's a little advice on how to make sex easier.
First, practice putting on a condom. I suggest you never put one on in the dark, but if you intend to, practice doing that too. Run through 2 or 3 boxes of 36 if you have to. Master it.
I have never, and will never, put on a condom in the dark, because I like to see what I'm doing. I also like to see my lover's body. It's a turn-on, and helps fight condom deflation. If ya know what I mean. Once you get used to the whole sex thing, it isn't a big deal so you don't get much deflation, if any.
Even having never pout one on in the dark, I can do it, and I know that because I know that they unroll down the shaft. If you keep that in mind, you should e able to put it on in the dark by feel. I recommend never doing it in the dark.
Next, does she know you're a virgin? If not, she may have expectations of you that are not realistic, which may me killing it for her since you're doing things without experience yet. Tell her you're a virgin, and ask for her guidance in the whole matter.
When it comes to penetrating a woman you're making love to, there are times when finding your entry point is not easy. In those cases, tell or ask her to do it for you. For instance, if she's on top, and you cannot possibly see what's going on... or if you're trying to do it in the dark.
It's not hard to find the vagina if you know one simple thing. When she's on her back, her vagina is the first hole you encounter when you start from her belly and go down. The top of her vulva in that position is where her clitoris is, and the bottom is where her vaginal entrance is.
If at any time you're unsure, just let her do it.
Also, instead of playing in the dark, why not turn on the lights, and ask for an anatomy lesson and a lesson in how to give her oral pleasure? Nothing teaches you your way around a woman's world like putting your face in it.
Next, don't worry if you lose her. There are plenty more where she came from, trust me, and you'll meet and sleep with some of them while you're running SM3. Maybe a lot of them.
Last but not least, always remember that it takes a stronger man to face his fears and overcome his weaknesses and limitations than to hide, and while getting up to speed may not be comfortable at first, it's a lot easier than it seems. You'll be quite good at it quite quickly, and the fastest way is to be humble and ask her to teach you. Women are usually more than happy to show you exactly how to give them pleasure, if you're humble enough to ask. And that's how legendary lovers are made.
Good hunting.
Here's a little advice on how to make sex easier.
First, practice putting on a condom. I suggest you never put one on in the dark, but if you intend to, practice doing that too. Run through 2 or 3 boxes of 36 if you have to. Master it.
I have never, and will never, put on a condom in the dark, because I like to see what I'm doing. I also like to see my lover's body. It's a turn-on, and helps fight condom deflation. If ya know what I mean.
Once you get used to the whole sex thing, it isn't a big deal so you don't get much deflation, if any. Even having never pout one on in the dark, I can do it, and I know that because I know that they unroll down the shaft. If you keep that in mind, you should e able to put it on in the dark by feel. I recommend never doing it in the dark.
Next, does she know you're a virgin? If not, she may have expectations of you that are not realistic, which may me killing it for her since you're doing things without experience yet. Tell her you're a virgin, and ask for her guidance in the whole matter.
When it comes to penetrating a woman you're making love to, there are times when finding your entry point is not easy. In those cases, tell or ask her to do it for you. For instance, if she's on top, and you cannot possibly see what's going on... or if you're trying to do it in the dark.
It's not hard to find the vagina if you know one simple thing. When she's on her back, her vagina is the first hole you encounter when you start from her belly and go down. The top of her vulva in that position is where her clitoris is, and the bottom is where her vaginal entrance is.
If at any time you're unsure, just let her do it.
Also, instead of playing in the dark, why not turn on the lights, and ask for an anatomy lesson and a lesson in how to give her oral pleasure? Nothing teaches you your way around a woman's world like putting your face in it.
Next, don't worry if you lose her. There are plenty more where she came from, trust me, and you'll meet and sleep with some of them while you're running SM3. Maybe a lot of them.
Last but not least, always remember that it takes a stronger man to face his fears and overcome his weaknesses and limitations than to hide, and while getting up to speed may not be comfortable at first, it's a lot easier than it seems. You'll be quite good at it quite quickly, and the fastest way is to be humble and ask her to teach you. Women are usually more than happy to show you exactly how to give them pleasure, if you're humble enough to ask. And that's how legendary lovers are made.
Good hunting.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
