06-14-2013, 04:02 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-14-2013, 04:24 AM by SargeMaximus.)
(06-13-2013, 08:17 PM)Ryan Wrote: -Less spending and more sex quickly - forget dating just jump right in or allowing the pursuing aspect to getting women to ask you out directly to come over, go out for a date which she's willing to pay
Oh my, this is an important one. Let's make this a sub where the people interact as human beings, not corporate business people coming to some kind of contract.
Sex should be a flowing thing that is an extension of yourself, not something to suddenly switch gears, go on a date, and all that. I'm thinking we need this sub to be a bit liberating for everyone affected (the user and the girls) in that it should put us closer to our "animal" selves. Not in any disgusting eat-your-own-feces kind of way, but in the way that the rules and societal norms are simply non-existent for both the user and the girls he is attracted to.
If you could make it so that the user of the sub can connect with everyone, is very integrated into any venue he finds himself in, and is approached by the women he finds attractive constantly, it'd create a nice reality where he can play in and be even less concerned with the sex but just have fun with it.
I'm thinking this is a bit like WM perhaps, but I'd like to see this in the blatantly sexual direction of course.
Also, I think SM 2.0 has this, but having it so that you can have the same sexual partners more than once (even for years) would be a must imo.
Now that I'm thinking of it, we should have a brain-storm topic for the new SM 3.0 if you are open to it Shannon. I know it didn't really work for AM 6.0
EDIT: I think a REALLY important one is self-trust and spontaneity. I've noticed that sometimes I do or say things that I almost object to as I'm doing or saying them, but do so anyways. It'd be awesome if there was a girl who you were interested in and you spontaneously pushed towards a hook up even if you were unsure or felt less than confident in your abilities.
For me at least, my biggest trouble is actually doing something with the attraction that is there. I just read About's journal, and it seems he has the same issue. So yeah, something that pushes towards action with little to no regard for the consequences EXCEPT in the cases of using protection or birth control, or avoiding situations that would damage you and/or the girl socially and/or physically. Obviously, we want to be safe and sound, but we also want to be able to act.