06-05-2013, 07:38 AM
I feel at this point, I am somewhere in the lines of not trying to get women. Although truth be told, I still want to meet women out there that are more suitable for me than my ex. Even with her smoking hot bod that wasn't enough for me. I'm being a lot pickier now. If I know someone isn't right for me, I won't be exclusive to them but rather I'll be keeping my options open until I find someone I really click with.
I guess I'm at the point where I wonder what I can do to place myself in more situations to meet women. I'm entertaining a few options but I think I'm slowly starting by finally learning how to cook for myself.
In addition starting my second massage job I want to make it succeed. Currently at my more stable job, I despise it and do not wish to be a part of a corporate massage industry. Up to about 5 other coworkers are leaving (one has already given her 2 weeks).
In terms of WM, I feel like you have made us go for exactly the formula that you presented. I don't try to get women anymore, but I do still want them, I'm focusing on how I can make my life better, and I have been generally positive in life as of late.
Good stuff. Love it.
A lot of the times, I feel like people in those clubs that are picking women up aka pick-up artists are all trying to get laid. At least that's the idea behind it anyway. Society places us in this kind of strange place. If you're not getting laid, what are you doing? I'm feeling like that's completely unnecessary if you are meeting a women at a bar or club or any situation.
I looked at some thing called "how to go to bars by yourself" and it kept talking on and on about how if you're by yourself you won't need to worry about your friends game keeping you back. It went on about how it might even take you the whole night just to get laid. That sounds awful to me, staying up until 4am just so that you can get some alone time because her friend didn't leave you two alone? That's definitely not what I want, sounds like a headache. I'm only 23 but I guess that kind of lifestyle/chase does not appeal to me.
The best part is once I started AM/SM/WM, I haven't felt the need to pick up a "PUA" book.
I guess I'm at the point where I wonder what I can do to place myself in more situations to meet women. I'm entertaining a few options but I think I'm slowly starting by finally learning how to cook for myself.
In addition starting my second massage job I want to make it succeed. Currently at my more stable job, I despise it and do not wish to be a part of a corporate massage industry. Up to about 5 other coworkers are leaving (one has already given her 2 weeks).
In terms of WM, I feel like you have made us go for exactly the formula that you presented. I don't try to get women anymore, but I do still want them, I'm focusing on how I can make my life better, and I have been generally positive in life as of late.
Good stuff. Love it.
A lot of the times, I feel like people in those clubs that are picking women up aka pick-up artists are all trying to get laid. At least that's the idea behind it anyway. Society places us in this kind of strange place. If you're not getting laid, what are you doing? I'm feeling like that's completely unnecessary if you are meeting a women at a bar or club or any situation.
I looked at some thing called "how to go to bars by yourself" and it kept talking on and on about how if you're by yourself you won't need to worry about your friends game keeping you back. It went on about how it might even take you the whole night just to get laid. That sounds awful to me, staying up until 4am just so that you can get some alone time because her friend didn't leave you two alone? That's definitely not what I want, sounds like a headache. I'm only 23 but I guess that kind of lifestyle/chase does not appeal to me.
The best part is once I started AM/SM/WM, I haven't felt the need to pick up a "PUA" book.
