06-04-2013, 09:36 AM
Appreciate the input guys.
For your first point I also do agree that relationship is going to be focused on sex. Even though we talk everyday and confess how perfect the relationship is with each other in the back of my mind I know that it is about the sex. Still, it feels pretty amazing being with someone you are so harmonious with.
For your second point, I meant to use words to describe the sex as the "situation" letting me take control and experience it with a submissive lover. Her personality is genuinely understanding and during the sex I see her submissive side, I own the power and am dominant to a higher degree. I wanted this type of lover so therefore I am more inclined to fulfill those needs but during sex it is quite natural for me to be in control, and for her to be submissive to me which gives both of us the most pleasure. I am just describing from the outside looking in.
Well how I looked at the AYP at first was that it was changing me, I believed that the program, when I was in contact with the sub was making me one step closer to my perfect lover. I am a very impatient guy especially when it comes to material things I want. From all my knowledge of the law of attraction, I know that your life on the outside is a direct result from whats on the inside so I just chose to stick with it. Of course there were times where I looked at my life and wanted to use AM or another program where I would know that the next morning I would wake up feeling different and more positive. I knew there was a reason for me to use this program. But I also had faith and believed that I was very open to the program and results would come. As mentioned earlier in the journal I was pursued by other women, that propped me up and gave me something to look forward too.
Even though having usage of ultra success or alpha male would make four months of your life very enjoyable, I would say also having that "perfect someone" is a great addition and the many months in the future are going to be absolutely wonderful.
I guess my advice is that do all the programs you want to improve yourself first. And then when you have a contract or something that you have put towards your work and u are keeping busy commit to this program and remember that the results after are worth it.
I am here if anyone has any other questions.
Thanks
Fonzy
(06-02-2013, 04:59 PM)Shannon Wrote: 1. Any program to attract some sort of perfect lover is probably going to be focused on, and through, sex, and you shouldn't expect it to survive if you try to make it romantic. Love will happen usually, but remember that she is your perfect lover, not your perfect romantic lover, unless the title specifies romantic lover.
2.Quote:She lets me take control and do what I want to get the most pleasure from our intercourse.
You asked for your perfect submissive lover. Yet you talk as if she is dominant. She lets you take control? If she is letting you, then she has the control, and she is not being submissive and/or you are not being dominant.
I say this because if she is your perfect submissive lover, she really is genuinely submissive, but she needs you to be genuinely dominant. A genuine submissive needs you to own the power and control, not ask her permission for having it. If you don't definitively own it and do so consistently and boldly as a matter of course, a genuine submissive will not feel safe or be happy with you. To keep her, you need to actually be the dominant one - not just play one. Be careful with that.
For your first point I also do agree that relationship is going to be focused on sex. Even though we talk everyday and confess how perfect the relationship is with each other in the back of my mind I know that it is about the sex. Still, it feels pretty amazing being with someone you are so harmonious with.
For your second point, I meant to use words to describe the sex as the "situation" letting me take control and experience it with a submissive lover. Her personality is genuinely understanding and during the sex I see her submissive side, I own the power and am dominant to a higher degree. I wanted this type of lover so therefore I am more inclined to fulfill those needs but during sex it is quite natural for me to be in control, and for her to be submissive to me which gives both of us the most pleasure. I am just describing from the outside looking in.
(06-03-2013, 04:56 PM)vanjav Wrote: I wanted to ask you something... as you know the AYP subs are one of the hardest to get results/journal posted because you practically need to be using somenthing for at least 4 months in where you dont really see any results or at least, not in such a direct way like the other subs. Did you have, maybe in the 2nd or 3rd month, thoughs of quitting? If so, how did you deal with that? I ask this because Im not a very patient guy and I dont know if I could wait until the end of the program to get the results.
Thanks
Well how I looked at the AYP at first was that it was changing me, I believed that the program, when I was in contact with the sub was making me one step closer to my perfect lover. I am a very impatient guy especially when it comes to material things I want. From all my knowledge of the law of attraction, I know that your life on the outside is a direct result from whats on the inside so I just chose to stick with it. Of course there were times where I looked at my life and wanted to use AM or another program where I would know that the next morning I would wake up feeling different and more positive. I knew there was a reason for me to use this program. But I also had faith and believed that I was very open to the program and results would come. As mentioned earlier in the journal I was pursued by other women, that propped me up and gave me something to look forward too.
Even though having usage of ultra success or alpha male would make four months of your life very enjoyable, I would say also having that "perfect someone" is a great addition and the many months in the future are going to be absolutely wonderful.
I guess my advice is that do all the programs you want to improve yourself first. And then when you have a contract or something that you have put towards your work and u are keeping busy commit to this program and remember that the results after are worth it.
I am here if anyone has any other questions.
Thanks
Fonzy
