There are no guarantees in life. I have seen people both prove and disprove the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I have seen people come out of prison much worse criminals than they were when they went in, and I have seen it happen that people were permanently and completely reformed when they came out of prison. I have seen good girls go bad, and bad girls go good. I have seen normally faithful wives cheat, an cheaters become faithful. There are no guarantees in life, and the only thing you can do is try to balance your trust with reasonable caution. Too much of either is bad.
Also, worrying about how you compare to other guys is useless. A woman who chooses to be with you is not with you because you are inferior. Don't waste your opportunities to enjoy yourself, or her, because you are worried that maybe you aren't as good as so-and-so. You aren't so-and-so. And she's not with him; she's with you. Let her enjoy your company too. Relax and just be yourself.
A good woman can be opened up to, and shared with of your insecurities and she will help you overcome them - but nobody is going to want to constantly try to fight your insecurities over and over. OGSF is going to help a lot, and there will be other things necessary to do as well.
Also, worrying about how you compare to other guys is useless. A woman who chooses to be with you is not with you because you are inferior. Don't waste your opportunities to enjoy yourself, or her, because you are worried that maybe you aren't as good as so-and-so. You aren't so-and-so. And she's not with him; she's with you. Let her enjoy your company too. Relax and just be yourself.
A good woman can be opened up to, and shared with of your insecurities and she will help you overcome them - but nobody is going to want to constantly try to fight your insecurities over and over. OGSF is going to help a lot, and there will be other things necessary to do as well.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
