(05-01-2013, 04:13 PM)Shannon Wrote: Fonzy, a few points to consider.
First, when we look too hard for what we are trying to find, we may find it, even when it's not there.
Second, in my experience, a manifested response can take time to develop into a workable situation. Factors in her life, and in yours, may not yet be in order, and may take time to align themselves. It took three months for the last woman I manifested to finish that process before anything happened between us. For the one before her, it took two years from the time I first met her to the time we started up... and I met her 1.8 years before I started manifesting her and then she was out of my life the rest of that time until I called her back.
Third, that program is designed to do three things: Attract your 1. perfect 2. submissive and 3. sexual lover.
Perfect, in my experience, means that she may not look like you expected, but she fits for the major keys. For instance, my perfect sexual lover turned out to be a woman who I would never have thought of even looking twice at before the program, because she was black, and I was just not thinking in that direction. I have nothing against black people, but my upbringing put blinders on me because there were never any black people around, so all I saw was white women until this happened.
Was she attractive physically? Yes, by my standards then. Less so now, although still far from ugly. Was she my perfect sexual lover? By far. And this was the main focus of our compatibility, and this is still true to this very day. We love one another, but we absolutely cannot have a relationship. If we agree to sex, though... there's fireworks and the earth moves and angels sing and all of that. And that's what I asked for: my perfect lover.
So it may be that if this is your response, that she simply isn't yet in a place where she is reasonably able to move in the desired direction. It may also be that there are no better options for the dominant search key in terms of looks in your areas, or a reasonable distance.
My advice is, set it and forget it. Trying to follow it, or watch it, is only going to interfere.
Understood Shannon
Thanks for sharing that story, and what you said makes perfect sense. I guess i'm just at a point where if there is something I want, I think it is right for me to do everything I can to get it because obviously I want to live life to the fullest.
You have reiterated you're advice and I have genuinely followed it for the past ninety days. I will continue to do so in order to get the right results from this program. I mean this woman does have some looks, but my ex looked like a younger Kim Kardashian and the one before that was a model, so for some reason I guess because of this, I thought the speed of being able to manifest this woman as my submissive sexual lover would increase when I came into town.
This woman I have manifested in my life has a lot in common with me which is nice .It might just be the case that after another month she and I do hook up but one of my important traits that I thought would be in the search key when manifesting this lover was also to have an abundance of incredible love making. I mean that's what lovers are there for, i've wanted this type of sex for some time and to get it would make my summer worthwhile. I take pride in knowing that I am making every moment of my life purposeful. Anyways I will keep you all updated on my upcoming progress.
Thanks
Fonzy