04-24-2013, 10:22 AM
(04-24-2013, 08:18 AM)Roy Wrote:(04-24-2013, 07:39 AM)Sean Wrote:(04-23-2013, 08:15 PM)Shannon Wrote: Okay, I have finally finished creating the meta-key script from this list. Here is what it includes. Please let me know what you think should be adjusted or removed, and why. I won't be adding anything else.
41. Decides which women he finds attractive, approaches them, talks to them, moves them to sex and does so fearlessly. (If single.)
83. success with women, sexual success
127. Shift women and sex to be less important than making himself successful in life.
130. 'rejection' is her loss, not his
169. women flock to you, want to please you, want to have sex with you
I feel like these items should be results, not goals. I'm reminded of The Dao of Steve, where the maxim is "We pursue that which retreats from us," and "don't think about sex." When we adopt an abundance mentality, women flock to that. Much like your latest experimental, generating the good feelings of being in love: they're not turned on by your pursuit of them, they're turned on by the fact that you aren't pursuing sex.
An Alpha doesn't care about rejection. It's not because he has deliberately reframed it as her loss; it is because his frame doesn't even recognize value in the judgments of a stranger who doesn't even know him.
I have to disagree with that.I think what that means is to get rid of the attachment to and scarcity of sex.Abundance mentality works,however not thinking about it or taking actions doesn't cause usually cause women to drag you to a private place to have sex.
You usually need a goal to get something and going and doing something about it.
I'm not making my point well:
41: is already part of being fearless (OGSF which is included). Without fear, a man will do this, and in a more general sense, without fear, he will do what he wants and judges to be appropriate.
83: Success is a result of alpha internal frame. Specifying success with women is more appropriately covered in WM / SM products.
127: His goals are his goals. The listener should determine his own goals, and making women secondary is an expected outcome from being an alpha.
130: Again, this is part of the frame. An alpha doesn't "see" rejection, any more than he sees gamma radiation with his naked eye. It being "her loss" is already part of his frame, because he regards himself as THE BEST!
169: Again, this is a result of being alpha.
I'm not suggesting we should deprogram any thoughts of sex or pursuing women. I'm saying that they should not be set as a goal for the listener. He can determine his own goals.
Fear is a liar.
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -- Ernest Hemingway
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -- Ernest Hemingway