04-22-2013, 04:07 PM
I think purpose definitely makes you Alpha, whether its and Alpha female or male. For one thing I think it would provide real stability with the ups and downs of your external circumstance since, with purpose, you always have a kind of internal 'north-star'.
You might, for instance, find that your lifes purpose for your current stage of life is to be the most amazing mother/father and decide that concentrating on raising incredible kids is your focus and where you will pursue your major goals - this would be an example of where its not about 'masculinity'.
Rainbow abyss, totally agree, I'd say though - IMHO - that purpose is both your highest ideals and what you value, but also includes the practical day-to-day skills and competence that you need to master in order to bring whatever it is you decide on , to the world.
You might, for instance, find that your lifes purpose for your current stage of life is to be the most amazing mother/father and decide that concentrating on raising incredible kids is your focus and where you will pursue your major goals - this would be an example of where its not about 'masculinity'.
Rainbow abyss, totally agree, I'd say though - IMHO - that purpose is both your highest ideals and what you value, but also includes the practical day-to-day skills and competence that you need to master in order to bring whatever it is you decide on , to the world.