Dude I went through the whole thing too. Actually I broke up with my girl in stage 3 I believe, and that was because my indifference became so strong I just didn't care anymore and I had more urges to date lots of women. Well now I am at the end of stage 5 and I just got back together with her. I think mostly what I needed was space. However, after we break up I got to the point where we were still seeing each other and it caused a lot of jealousy (as we were both trying to date other people) and we both couldn't let each other go no matter how much we fought (which was almost daily). I made the choice we needed to rekindle this relationship to get past all this confusion. It either works again or it doesn't, atleast we will know where we need to go next.
Tiesto, truth be told, she is most likely using this guy as a rebound. If she's already planning to marry him...then obviously she has a lot of issues dealing with loneliness. Did you break up with her, or her you? I remember during AM and when I did SM before, I had lost girlfriends. And the only reason it seems to be is because of my indifference and their need for attention and affection. And because of that I always found someone stronger later on. It could be manifestation....perhaps, your new changes are pushing out what is wrong for you in order to get what you truly want. Some girls can be so insecure they feel they cannot handle our type. They think either they are not good enough which could make us want to cheat, they feel that perhaps we are so indifferent because we are busy with about 1000 other women (and a lot of women cannot handle all the attention), or they need someone who clings to them 24/7. My ex had BDD and extreme self-esteem issues. After she left me she settled with (and is marrying) a good little boy who goes to church with her every weekend, does everything she wants him to do and will give her full attention 24/7. I can not and will not do that. She still talks to me from time to time, makes him jealous
Truth be told, when we broke up I completely realized i needed someone stronger and more confident, she knew this...and I later discovered that with my current girl (who can handle me).
Tiesto, truth be told, she is most likely using this guy as a rebound. If she's already planning to marry him...then obviously she has a lot of issues dealing with loneliness. Did you break up with her, or her you? I remember during AM and when I did SM before, I had lost girlfriends. And the only reason it seems to be is because of my indifference and their need for attention and affection. And because of that I always found someone stronger later on. It could be manifestation....perhaps, your new changes are pushing out what is wrong for you in order to get what you truly want. Some girls can be so insecure they feel they cannot handle our type. They think either they are not good enough which could make us want to cheat, they feel that perhaps we are so indifferent because we are busy with about 1000 other women (and a lot of women cannot handle all the attention), or they need someone who clings to them 24/7. My ex had BDD and extreme self-esteem issues. After she left me she settled with (and is marrying) a good little boy who goes to church with her every weekend, does everything she wants him to do and will give her full attention 24/7. I can not and will not do that. She still talks to me from time to time, makes him jealous
Truth be told, when we broke up I completely realized i needed someone stronger and more confident, she knew this...and I later discovered that with my current girl (who can handle me).
