Re: Can negative experiences have an impact on the effectiveness of the subliminals?

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If it impacts you so negatively, it is probably better to use the program for 32 to 90 days before attempting sex so that doesn't happen. It will slow does the effects, as you are as you said negatively affecting them by doing that. But the subliminal will overcome that regardless, especially if used for sufficient time. It will just take longer if you do that.

Thank you very much for your response Shannon. So what you are saying is that these negative experiences will basically take me a step back. In theory 2 steps forward one step backward?

As for not attempting in sex for 32 - 90 days, I would love nothing more than for to do this but I currently cannot. I have a girlfriend and she does not know about my issue as it has only come on quite recently (past few months) from a negative experience that I had with her where basically my penis was not responding or going up at all for whatever reason (though she does not know how this experience has effected me), so since then I have been putting off from penetrative sex and making excuses, etc, and she is really putting pressure on me for it now, and has booked a penthouse suite for her birthday, and is expecting penetrative sex, so it is unavoidable but I am really anxious about failing, which in my current mindset and having not gone through the whole recommended time of listening to the OED subliminal recording will probably happen.

I know that you cannot provide any medical help (although I have been medically checked out and I am perfectly fine) but would the use of viagra for one or two nights be advisable so that I do not fail to 'get up' and not create further negative experiences? These would only be used one or two times while I use your subliminal recording to fix my subconscious erectile anxiety issues? I have never used them before by the way.

Thanks Shannon

It sounds to me like you place a huge amount of importance on this, and you are beating yourself up for it. If that's the case, you're probably creating a vicious cycle: you didn't get it up, so you feel like less of a man, so you get anxious and beat yourself up, which blocks you from getting it up...

The good news is, if there's nothing physically wrong with you, it's purely psychological and that means the program will work for you. You just have to use it long enough, and for enough time.

Have you considered talking to your girlfriend about what's going on with you? Is she the type who would be understanding? There are other ways to give a woman pleasure, too. I think some communication might take a lot of pressure off you and really could help a lot.

As for Viagra, I cannot give out medical advice. Since Viagra is a medication, for me to advise you to take it or not to take it would be giving out medical advice. So I will leave that situation up to you and your physician to decide.

I suggest you stop worrying so much about it. Less you worry, the less upset you get, the better it will be and the faster the program will work

Hi Shannon,

Yes you've described everything perfectly. The viscous cycle of not getting it up, feeling less like of a man, and fearing that if my girlfriend realises that she will leave me, as I really don't want to loose her, or face the embarrassment of her knowing, and then the anxiety that blocks the erection from happening.

I find it so bad that one isolated incident can trigger something so bad to happen, going from a very sexual young male, achieving erections through arousal, to this, what I am now. I have never ever been worried, anxious, unmanly, and stressed before in my life until this.

I'm really embarrassed to talk to her about it so I'll probably make up another really dramatic excuse to avoid sex, or just take the pill on a one off just to satisfy her (I'm going to book a doctors appointment today to see if that would be suitable).

I've been pleasing her in other ways to avoid penetrative sex ever since, but she now really wants penetrative sex, which is added pressure.

I contemplated using your overcome anxiety subliminal alongside the OED subliminal, but opted against it, because my anxiety spurs only from my erection issues, so once that is fixed, my anxiety and stress and worry will be gone as well. Also it would take longer for either to work if I used both at the same.