02-24-2013, 03:33 PM
(This post was last modified: 02-24-2013, 03:55 PM by ShanghaiKiwi.)
(02-24-2013, 02:14 PM)Shannon Wrote: I suggest you stop worrying so much about it. Less you worry, the less upset you get, the better it will be and the faster the program will work
Thats really true adotd, Shannon's absolutely right. My first time, what could have been merely one night spoiled from jetlag (21 hours of flying can do that) became 3 weeks for me because I got so upset about it and took myself so damn seriously. But no woman wants to see their man moping about it, and have to comfort them. If you can shrug it off and show her a good time anyway, she won't be nearly as bothered about it as you are, trust me.
My first improvements, I guess, were in the morning. But it wasn't slow - i started seeing small results quickly and then better ones. However at this stage I didn't have so much emotional baggage about it like I had a year or so earlier when it first happened. It wasn't the end of the world so to speak, just an annoying inconcenience when I wanted to get laid. That was my feeling when I started the sub and I think it helped fix it a lot quicker.
S**t I just realised, all of this is going on the internet. I don't want to introduce this forum to my friends, lol! Maybe, adotd, after you've read all this and finished with it, you can delete the thread?
