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[THolt]

Shannon, what if all of the problems you mentioned with lottery winners such as lack of self control, guilt in giving to family is related to deservedness. For instance, a person who gives to family out of guilt does not value themselves enough to say no and put boundaries up therefore will succumb to pressure by family for money. Lack of self control because of a person is insecure in themselves that they try to satisfy emptiness with possessions instead of realizing that happiness comes from within.