11-13-2012, 11:26 AM
An interesting couple of days. Firstly definitely noticing more eye contact from females. One morning my flat mate was just stood in the hall way as I left my room. She was like "Hi" all giddy and just stood there in my way. I was thinking why are you standing there and acting giddy as I was trying get past her. Eventually I had to let her know that I needed to get past. However only after did I stop and think that the sub was maybe communicating on a subliminal level where she was drawn to me.
Which leads me to a question of BIATW. How does it categorize attractive women. Is this women you personally find attractive? I'm confused. Am i attracting women who i perceive to be attractive. Or should I leave the question and let what ever be.
With regards to the fear sub. I certainly think I am much more calm, and recently on Friday I made a comment to the Bar Maid. I was like "can you bring me over 5 beers....and try to make it under 5 minutes" All my friends were like what did you just say? She hates us now. I was totally unaffected and it didn't really affect me. She loved it and come back bantering me about it so it was all good. I think the biggest take home so far with this is I have lost the ability to care what others think. I no longer fear peoples perceptions. If I hear a negative comment it just doesn't even register. I hear it and then its gone. No attachment to it. As a result I have definitely found myself beating myself up less.
So far so good, although recently I have had to fight some resistance to listening to BIATW for some reason. The last two days in particular I have tried to make constant excuses.
Which leads me to a question of BIATW. How does it categorize attractive women. Is this women you personally find attractive? I'm confused. Am i attracting women who i perceive to be attractive. Or should I leave the question and let what ever be.
With regards to the fear sub. I certainly think I am much more calm, and recently on Friday I made a comment to the Bar Maid. I was like "can you bring me over 5 beers....and try to make it under 5 minutes" All my friends were like what did you just say? She hates us now. I was totally unaffected and it didn't really affect me. She loved it and come back bantering me about it so it was all good. I think the biggest take home so far with this is I have lost the ability to care what others think. I no longer fear peoples perceptions. If I hear a negative comment it just doesn't even register. I hear it and then its gone. No attachment to it. As a result I have definitely found myself beating myself up less.
So far so good, although recently I have had to fight some resistance to listening to BIATW for some reason. The last two days in particular I have tried to make constant excuses.
