09-30-2012, 04:19 AM
Great/really annoying story
So there's this chick I've met a couple times throughout the last year when I am out. Lets just call her A.
I've been with some attractive woman in my time but A is way up there, she literally looks like a supermodel, ok maybe pornstar but friendly, 5'2 beautiful-but the really adorable kind, really fit but with double D's, and artistic tattoos all over the place, and she's a philosophy major (like yours truly), and I actually really like her as a person outside of a sexual context. Suffice to say at the end of the night I went with her to some old friends from high school's house and the were really stoned, I wasn't sure where things were going but I don't get stoned and got bored so I told her let's go. She was going to head back to BK but I asked her if she wanted to just get spit a beer at a deli and drink it in my cool 'existential' studio. We ended up in my studio, and at first I was just way too into talking philosophy with her, then I realized a half hour later that I had a smoking hot girl sitting next to me alone in my house... Apparently she mentioned some potential budding other romance of hers in passing during the conversation, but were making out like 10 minutes later anyway.
I start to undress her, basically unzip the thong her whole body is in, and she said she wanted to get naked but only if we could play piano that was in there while we were in the nude. Weird but fun so needless to say.... I was in, so we played piano naked it was quite a fun experience.
Then..we were back on the couch again after that, and things were pretty full blown hot for a while, and then all of a sudden she's snap's up and is like, "I have to go". She's chill about it but very resolute. She basically say's she can't do this now, its 7 in the morning btw, obviously things are not going further so I go to get her a cab, and were talking and she's finding out if her roommates can let her back in since she lent her friend her keys, and apparently her friends were having sex in her bed. She make's some joke about having a threesome cuddle with them and then I find out she's actually had a threesome with them before. I start ripping on her for leaving where we are to go have a threesome and I'm only half kidding, I'm not upset but I am certainly fired up and resolute and trying to get to the bottom of WTF just happened in as honest but political way, since I really only known her for like 10 hours total. She had been mentioning her school work load all night and she said she just has to get back and pass out on the coach and then get to work, and she did oscillate back and forth between super cerebral and super sexual before, really weird combo btw.
Anyway usually I'd feel great about this situation, usually I feel great about whatever happens, but I find myself really pissed right now. A. Because she left all of a sudden after being super into basically doing everything but regular sex, which wouldn't even really care about but B. because she possibly left for something else, I've never experienced this before but just the though of that really bothers me, adding salt to potential wound, this is actually one of the few girl's I would have been willing to date and I can't tell if she just didn't want to give it up the first time and bounced, she actually has work to do and realized it would be 8 in the morning before she got home, or she's a straight up nympho and left for a threesome (but most nymphos would have had sex and then left for a threesome), and she did not know that was going on before she said she had to go..I think. I'm also really good friends with her girlfriend so this is someone who might show up in my life again, and this is the most stumped I've been about this kind of situation in a long time lol.
I'm finding it hard to be objective, because I've been crushing on her for almost a year now and now I'm frustrated so any thoughts on what you guys think is actually the deal and if this is someone worth dealing with still?..any insight, thoughts, or advice would be much appreciated.
I'm certainly not needy about her, and getting this far, with this girl who I have basically wanted to be with since my friend introduced her almost a year ago (I see her like once every few months) was dope but I find myself starting to violate my number one rule of dating/hooking up with girls:
Though shalt not be more invested in anything happening/relationship developing than thine chick with thee is.
Anyway I would be really surprised if she lied but if she did, I'm never speaking to her unless she just asks to come home with me in which case, I'll have sex with her and then never speak to her again except when she initiates for something. I'd say that's the best political move for optimum insurance and self preservation of masculinity (male instincts and aliveness not character), which feels like its taken a blow right now lol, considering my level of maturity, our sometimes shared social scene, her (potential) lack of trustworthiness, and my biological drives.
So there's this chick I've met a couple times throughout the last year when I am out. Lets just call her A.
I've been with some attractive woman in my time but A is way up there, she literally looks like a supermodel, ok maybe pornstar but friendly, 5'2 beautiful-but the really adorable kind, really fit but with double D's, and artistic tattoos all over the place, and she's a philosophy major (like yours truly), and I actually really like her as a person outside of a sexual context. Suffice to say at the end of the night I went with her to some old friends from high school's house and the were really stoned, I wasn't sure where things were going but I don't get stoned and got bored so I told her let's go. She was going to head back to BK but I asked her if she wanted to just get spit a beer at a deli and drink it in my cool 'existential' studio. We ended up in my studio, and at first I was just way too into talking philosophy with her, then I realized a half hour later that I had a smoking hot girl sitting next to me alone in my house... Apparently she mentioned some potential budding other romance of hers in passing during the conversation, but were making out like 10 minutes later anyway.
I start to undress her, basically unzip the thong her whole body is in, and she said she wanted to get naked but only if we could play piano that was in there while we were in the nude. Weird but fun so needless to say.... I was in, so we played piano naked it was quite a fun experience.
Then..we were back on the couch again after that, and things were pretty full blown hot for a while, and then all of a sudden she's snap's up and is like, "I have to go". She's chill about it but very resolute. She basically say's she can't do this now, its 7 in the morning btw, obviously things are not going further so I go to get her a cab, and were talking and she's finding out if her roommates can let her back in since she lent her friend her keys, and apparently her friends were having sex in her bed. She make's some joke about having a threesome cuddle with them and then I find out she's actually had a threesome with them before. I start ripping on her for leaving where we are to go have a threesome and I'm only half kidding, I'm not upset but I am certainly fired up and resolute and trying to get to the bottom of WTF just happened in as honest but political way, since I really only known her for like 10 hours total. She had been mentioning her school work load all night and she said she just has to get back and pass out on the coach and then get to work, and she did oscillate back and forth between super cerebral and super sexual before, really weird combo btw.
Anyway usually I'd feel great about this situation, usually I feel great about whatever happens, but I find myself really pissed right now. A. Because she left all of a sudden after being super into basically doing everything but regular sex, which wouldn't even really care about but B. because she possibly left for something else, I've never experienced this before but just the though of that really bothers me, adding salt to potential wound, this is actually one of the few girl's I would have been willing to date and I can't tell if she just didn't want to give it up the first time and bounced, she actually has work to do and realized it would be 8 in the morning before she got home, or she's a straight up nympho and left for a threesome (but most nymphos would have had sex and then left for a threesome), and she did not know that was going on before she said she had to go..I think. I'm also really good friends with her girlfriend so this is someone who might show up in my life again, and this is the most stumped I've been about this kind of situation in a long time lol.
I'm finding it hard to be objective, because I've been crushing on her for almost a year now and now I'm frustrated so any thoughts on what you guys think is actually the deal and if this is someone worth dealing with still?..any insight, thoughts, or advice would be much appreciated.
I'm certainly not needy about her, and getting this far, with this girl who I have basically wanted to be with since my friend introduced her almost a year ago (I see her like once every few months) was dope but I find myself starting to violate my number one rule of dating/hooking up with girls:
Though shalt not be more invested in anything happening/relationship developing than thine chick with thee is.
Anyway I would be really surprised if she lied but if she did, I'm never speaking to her unless she just asks to come home with me in which case, I'll have sex with her and then never speak to her again except when she initiates for something. I'd say that's the best political move for optimum insurance and self preservation of masculinity (male instincts and aliveness not character), which feels like its taken a blow right now lol, considering my level of maturity, our sometimes shared social scene, her (potential) lack of trustworthiness, and my biological drives.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
