06-14-2026, 08:06 PM
Day 46,
I finally did my first real cold approach - from start to finish - today at the gym. She was a gym baddie with a nice ass and a baseball cap on, with a resting face going on.
She was friendly from the start; my approach was very chill and my nervous system wasn't spiked - apparently, women pick up heavily on these things.
I should mention that I started re-learning Ross Jeffries' NLP patterns again, and I've been meaning to find opportunities to practice them.
I was able to use a couple of make-shift ones with her, and it probably didn't take effect right away. We bonded over gym topics, and I got her number.
I've been able to apply the patterns in a few other opportunities; it's quite challenging to keep the conversation relevant while inserting sly subconscious 'commands'. It's worth looking up.
These realizations are partly behind why I said that "anything goes" in conversation a few days ago.
I finally did my first real cold approach - from start to finish - today at the gym. She was a gym baddie with a nice ass and a baseball cap on, with a resting face going on.
She was friendly from the start; my approach was very chill and my nervous system wasn't spiked - apparently, women pick up heavily on these things.
I should mention that I started re-learning Ross Jeffries' NLP patterns again, and I've been meaning to find opportunities to practice them.
I was able to use a couple of make-shift ones with her, and it probably didn't take effect right away. We bonded over gym topics, and I got her number.
I've been able to apply the patterns in a few other opportunities; it's quite challenging to keep the conversation relevant while inserting sly subconscious 'commands'. It's worth looking up.
These realizations are partly behind why I said that "anything goes" in conversation a few days ago.
