Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 8

[Johannesbrst]

Shannon, hoping to get your advice on something.

I met a girl that I got infatuated with. We started being friends, I asked her on a date but she wasn't ready due to recently coming out form a LTR. Then one day she ask us to hang out by ourselves. I make moves and we and up making out and having a great day, being very close, etc. Then a few days later she flips and tells me she don't want to hang out anymore as I broke her trust not listening to her saying she wasn't ready. Now we are in no contact.

First, my conclusion is that she is attracted to me, but disappointed in herself not being able to contain herself, deviating from her imaginated way that things would play out with us, and thus breaking off our contact. But I may be wrong, perhaps she has another personality with a reasoning that I'm not familiar with. What is your assessment?

Second, how would I best attract her back to me, perhaps using any of your products? I'm planning to start Maverick soon, could it as a side effect help me manifest her back, as the situation could be caused by my self inflicted limitations?

She was telling you she's not ready for sex or a relationship.  She got upset because either she was trusting you not to make a move or because she doesn't want you to be a rebound fling or both.  She's healing emotionally right now, and doesn't want to get involved while that's happening.  She also doesn't want to complicate things with sex while she's emotionally vulnerable and hurting.

You can't draw any conclusions as to whether she's attracted when she's on the rebound.  People do things they wouldn't normally do while they're on the rebound.

My advice is, leave her alone until she comes back to you.  If she comes back to you, since she feels betrayed.

Maverick will not help manifest her back.  Just let her come back to you when she is ready.  Don't try to push, hurry her or influence her.

Ok. Thanks for your advice. Will take it.