04-07-2024, 04:58 AM
A week after I've finished AM6 stage 6 I've met the Russian girl I wrote about in my journal:
It took us 1-2 weeks to meet because she traveled abroad and came back this week.
I've seen many unexpected benefits from AM6 in dealing with that girl!
On Thursday, we chatted and I suggested scheduling a meeting with her on Friday night.
She tried to paint a picture like I was chasing her or wanting to meet sooner.
She said, "I'm very busy today and busy tomorrow morning. I might be able to meet you tomorrow night." I was very short in my answer.
I said, "Yes, that's what I meant. Tomorrow at 22:30," and she said, "No, I cannot do it at 10:00; it's too late." So, I said we could do it a bit earlier.
"I will get back to you in the evening if I can meet you tomorrow," she replied. I said, "Cool."
Then, I never heard from her and never texted her.
On Friday, I didn't text her either.
Around noon on Friday, she texted me something like, "Hey, I'm sorry I was so busy yesterday. How are you?" So, I flirted with her a little bit and told her I'd pick her up at 20:00.
Point #1: Usually, I would text her again on Friday morning because she didn't text me yesterday to confirm if she could meet me or not, or I would text her on Thursday night to understand if she could meet me tomorrow, on Friday.
If I wouldn't do that and would wait, I would still be very pissed or angry inside or thinking about it too much.
Because of the program, I didn't care at all. I was not needy, which was a good change. I was not even too aware that she didn't text me; I didn't even pay attention to it.
We met, and we sat outside on my balcony.
She did something some girls do; she sat far away from me. Usually, that would piss me off or affect me emotionally.
I was unreactive, and it felt natural.
I leaned back like a king and just let her qualify herself to me.
Then, after an hour, I told her we were going to move to another place and go for a walk.
Point #2: I was unaffected emotionally and not chasing. I didn't tell her to come closer to me, and I didn't try to make her closer to me.
Point #3: Usually, the girl is the one who says, "Let's go for a walk," because we said we would later on. Instead of waiting for her to say it or being too clingy or needy, wanting her to come closer to me, I was like, "Let's go."
On our walk in the park, usually, the girls come closer to me, and if they don't, I try to get closer to them and chase them. This one stayed farther away from me as we walked. Instead of chasing her, I was just talking about what I wanted to talk about. I was in my world, feeling great, and I didn't care about her, and she felt that.
Point #4: I let her be away from me if she wanted to, even though usually I would try to come closer. I was so non-needy that I think she started to want me to come closer.
Then, at one point, I took her by the hand and brought her closer to me, and we kissed.
She's a lousy kisser and very unemotional and weird. We held hands on the way to the car, then she threw my hand away.
Usually, that would upset me, or I would try to chase or be pissed and want the date to be over with.
However, I didn't flinch whatsoever, and she 100% felt I didn't care.
Point #5: I didn't flinch when she let go of my hand. I was 100% Alpha and cool.
Then, she started to talk about politics and very emotional things, in her opinion.
She got really emotional about what she talked about and wanted me to react and join the conversation.
All I did was not get into that type of conversation or say my opinions.
I don't care about the subject at all.
All I said was, "Mm, really? Ok."
She continued and continued, and I just changed the subject like nothing happened.
I stopped, and we looked at the horizon. It was very beautiful, and I said how beautiful it was. She agreed.
I tried to get closer to her. I stepped half a step towards her, and she said it's very late and she wants to go to sleep. Usually, I would get upset because I tried to get closer and she says something like that. Instead, I said, "Yeah, you're right. I need to get a good night's sleep. Let's go," and I drove her back home.
Point #6: I was naturally
very alpha and holding my frame, not talking about bs that I don't care about and changing the conversation. When she tried to turn the frame like she is the prize, I said, "You're right, it's late. Let's go." It was really cool. I've been in those situations many times, so I know it is the right thing. It depends on the type of girl. This type of girl is trouble.
And she's not that attractive in my eyes, anyway, by the way.
When I dropped her home, I expected her to want to kiss me on the lips because we kissed beforehand, but sometimes they do this kind of thing where they try to make you want to kiss them, and when you try to kiss them, they give you their cheek.
Subconsciously, I probably knew that, and the program held onto the steering wheel.
I didn't lean in to kiss her on the lips.
I just leaned in to say bye inside the car.
She then chose to kiss me on the cheek, and I did the same. I bet she probably wanted me to try to kiss her on the lips and then reject me and feel so good about it, but I didn't give her the opportunity.
She then went on and said how she's grateful for me taking her for a walk and everything and to drive safely.
Point #7: Not being manipulated!
That's just from the first run through I bet it can get much better
It took us 1-2 weeks to meet because she traveled abroad and came back this week.
I've seen many unexpected benefits from AM6 in dealing with that girl!
On Thursday, we chatted and I suggested scheduling a meeting with her on Friday night.
She tried to paint a picture like I was chasing her or wanting to meet sooner.
She said, "I'm very busy today and busy tomorrow morning. I might be able to meet you tomorrow night." I was very short in my answer.
I said, "Yes, that's what I meant. Tomorrow at 22:30," and she said, "No, I cannot do it at 10:00; it's too late." So, I said we could do it a bit earlier.
"I will get back to you in the evening if I can meet you tomorrow," she replied. I said, "Cool."
Then, I never heard from her and never texted her.
On Friday, I didn't text her either.
Around noon on Friday, she texted me something like, "Hey, I'm sorry I was so busy yesterday. How are you?" So, I flirted with her a little bit and told her I'd pick her up at 20:00.
Point #1: Usually, I would text her again on Friday morning because she didn't text me yesterday to confirm if she could meet me or not, or I would text her on Thursday night to understand if she could meet me tomorrow, on Friday.
If I wouldn't do that and would wait, I would still be very pissed or angry inside or thinking about it too much.
Because of the program, I didn't care at all. I was not needy, which was a good change. I was not even too aware that she didn't text me; I didn't even pay attention to it.
We met, and we sat outside on my balcony.
She did something some girls do; she sat far away from me. Usually, that would piss me off or affect me emotionally.
I was unreactive, and it felt natural.
I leaned back like a king and just let her qualify herself to me.
Then, after an hour, I told her we were going to move to another place and go for a walk.
Point #2: I was unaffected emotionally and not chasing. I didn't tell her to come closer to me, and I didn't try to make her closer to me.
Point #3: Usually, the girl is the one who says, "Let's go for a walk," because we said we would later on. Instead of waiting for her to say it or being too clingy or needy, wanting her to come closer to me, I was like, "Let's go."
On our walk in the park, usually, the girls come closer to me, and if they don't, I try to get closer to them and chase them. This one stayed farther away from me as we walked. Instead of chasing her, I was just talking about what I wanted to talk about. I was in my world, feeling great, and I didn't care about her, and she felt that.
Point #4: I let her be away from me if she wanted to, even though usually I would try to come closer. I was so non-needy that I think she started to want me to come closer.
Then, at one point, I took her by the hand and brought her closer to me, and we kissed.
She's a lousy kisser and very unemotional and weird. We held hands on the way to the car, then she threw my hand away.
Usually, that would upset me, or I would try to chase or be pissed and want the date to be over with.
However, I didn't flinch whatsoever, and she 100% felt I didn't care.
Point #5: I didn't flinch when she let go of my hand. I was 100% Alpha and cool.
Then, she started to talk about politics and very emotional things, in her opinion.
She got really emotional about what she talked about and wanted me to react and join the conversation.
All I did was not get into that type of conversation or say my opinions.
I don't care about the subject at all.
All I said was, "Mm, really? Ok."
She continued and continued, and I just changed the subject like nothing happened.
I stopped, and we looked at the horizon. It was very beautiful, and I said how beautiful it was. She agreed.
I tried to get closer to her. I stepped half a step towards her, and she said it's very late and she wants to go to sleep. Usually, I would get upset because I tried to get closer and she says something like that. Instead, I said, "Yeah, you're right. I need to get a good night's sleep. Let's go," and I drove her back home.
Point #6: I was naturally
very alpha and holding my frame, not talking about bs that I don't care about and changing the conversation. When she tried to turn the frame like she is the prize, I said, "You're right, it's late. Let's go." It was really cool. I've been in those situations many times, so I know it is the right thing. It depends on the type of girl. This type of girl is trouble.
And she's not that attractive in my eyes, anyway, by the way.
When I dropped her home, I expected her to want to kiss me on the lips because we kissed beforehand, but sometimes they do this kind of thing where they try to make you want to kiss them, and when you try to kiss them, they give you their cheek.
Subconsciously, I probably knew that, and the program held onto the steering wheel.
I didn't lean in to kiss her on the lips.
I just leaned in to say bye inside the car.
She then chose to kiss me on the cheek, and I did the same. I bet she probably wanted me to try to kiss her on the lips and then reject me and feel so good about it, but I didn't give her the opportunity.
She then went on and said how she's grateful for me taking her for a walk and everything and to drive safely.
Point #7: Not being manipulated!
That's just from the first run through I bet it can get much better
AM6 (03.2024)
