(03-14-2024, 11:03 AM)Johannesbrst Wrote:(03-14-2024, 07:56 AM)Topaz Wrote: Hey man,
I appreciate your perspective, and I understand the importance of earning genuine respect. However, my point is not about forcing respect through fear. It's more about the energy I project and what I attract subconsciously. I'm exploring how my inner state and the vibes I give off influence the way people interact with me. It's not about control, but more about understanding and possibly refining the signals I send out to the world.
I've also noticed some positive indicators of interest from younger, attractive female colleagues. However, I've observed that older clients, both male and female, as well as individuals who are not familiar with me, don't seem to pay much attention. Sometimes, I even receive negative attention from them, including disrespectful behaviors. It's an interesting contrast that I'm trying to understand better in terms of the energy I'm putting out and how it's perceived by different groups.
I should mention that the energy I project is influenced by the AM6 program I've been following. Before starting this program, I used to get better reactions from people. It's something I'm reflecting on as I continue with the program.
Reflect on if your need to get reactions from people is what causing the issues. Younger people may not notice this but older people recognize when it's someone to keen on getting one or the other traction from them. Try to work on yourself and don't be so focused on the reactions or lack of reactions from others.
It's actually the opposite. I don't seek any reactions, which is why younger women at work are attracted to me. I'm subconsciously exuding alpha characteristics and showing non-neediness.
Also, it seems like it says on the sales page - the more attractive the women are, the more they will be attracted to me. It's now when I reflect back that I start to think about it more mm....
The hotter the girl is, the more I talk with a stronger voice and wake up!
And the hotter they are to more attracted they are to me.
It's true in my workplace. When the girls/women work with me and get a lot of exposure to me, they do chase me or are very interested in getting to know and talk to me. I've also seen these reactions from clients' daughters. They smile, laugh, and become shy when I'm around. What's interesting is clients' daughters don't need too much exposure it's like it is immediately there.
Again, I don't really care and was pleasantly surprised! I care more about opportunities outside of my workplace like bars, clubs, malls, streets, and subways. The girls at work do chase me, but I'm looking for something else...
And I care about the clients themselves because I work in sales. If the client doesn't connect with me, I'm losing potential money. I think that's why I'm pissed.
I want to touch on a the fact that where I am the economy affects sells.
Also, the non-reactions outside of work can be frustrating. When I do talk to people, they are nice overall, but I don't get looks or approach invitations from women.
And again, attractive women who don't know me in bars and clubs might be interested, but only if they have enough exposure.
For example, bartenders get attracted to me, but only if I visit the same place at least twice.
With every visit, I get more and more attention.
But I don't want to feel like I need to play the long game to get attention. When I write it, by the way, it doesn't sound that bad, but I have my moments when everything just seems to bother me, lol.
Regarding the people who may disrespect or just plainly not pay too much attention to me, it's not anything I'm doing.
It's something I'm not projecting, like maybe fun or welcoming energy.
It might be a too serious manager energy.
Or maybe clients try to save some money now.
Who knows.
When I write everything now I'm asking myself if clients might get frustrated with the economy and maybe feel disconnected because I've changed.
Last week I did feel a girl who works with me got really frustrated and upset with me because I didn't pay attention to her.
She's attractive and she knows it.
Then I saw her again this week and I was right because she didn't stop talking and pay attention to me! Again a present surprise. One girl stopped showing up for work when she understood I'm not interested/will not act on it. So I can't complain there.
Well let's see what's next