09-12-2012, 01:06 PM
well, I have got to say that FunkeyMonkey very eloquently stated some
points I resonated with and Shannon very eloquently cleared them up...
I think the only difference in opinion is really the interim period in which the man develops.
AM, at least the version I have done, does truly create an indifference that is very freeing, and an aloofness that seemed to bounce back and forth between 'mature responsible stud without a care in the world' and just to preoccupied and genuinely disinterested yet still frustrated at inability to really connect-both sexually and otherwise-but that was probably partially resistance.
Truth be told I have always been more of a 'playboy' and even though have had times where am seeing a woman or several woman it has never been in a particularly 'romantic-mushy' girlfriend. capacity..and when I have nothing going on I could care less now-I owe this in part to Alpha.
It just seems like I get more out of my freedom and enjoying my bachelorhood then I would get with most woman, there are some woman who it seems this would not be the case with.
However I do believe that for a stable and complete maximized life that ultimately there is a synergy and or 'gifting', and even an oneness beyond the ego dynamics of finding a counterpart between men and woman that is incredibly valuable. I have had glimpses of it, and I've known some couples like that and it is quite remarkable.
points I resonated with and Shannon very eloquently cleared them up...
I think the only difference in opinion is really the interim period in which the man develops.
AM, at least the version I have done, does truly create an indifference that is very freeing, and an aloofness that seemed to bounce back and forth between 'mature responsible stud without a care in the world' and just to preoccupied and genuinely disinterested yet still frustrated at inability to really connect-both sexually and otherwise-but that was probably partially resistance.
Truth be told I have always been more of a 'playboy' and even though have had times where am seeing a woman or several woman it has never been in a particularly 'romantic-mushy' girlfriend. capacity..and when I have nothing going on I could care less now-I owe this in part to Alpha.
It just seems like I get more out of my freedom and enjoying my bachelorhood then I would get with most woman, there are some woman who it seems this would not be the case with.
However I do believe that for a stable and complete maximized life that ultimately there is a synergy and or 'gifting', and even an oneness beyond the ego dynamics of finding a counterpart between men and woman that is incredibly valuable. I have had glimpses of it, and I've known some couples like that and it is quite remarkable.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.