03-26-2023, 09:29 PM
(03-26-2023, 08:35 PM)AmpersndThe2nd Wrote:(03-24-2023, 04:41 AM)Johannesbrst Wrote: I find it easier to be in enough contact with yourself so you can sense what feels "right" and "wrong". In that way you don't need to adjust yourself to some ideology or anti-ideology, but can rely on your own judgement for your life. Thus also giving less energy to all this stuff, that's mostly (if not entirely) very shallow things that's just phrased in a way to sound profound. Better to read quality literature that has held the test of time, than to get sucked into the mantras of our time.
To keep the conversation going, your advice is sound. I believe that your personal development is your limiter for other areas of life.
At the same time, it's general self-improvement advice; got any saucy and spicy takes about dating, the Red Pill, or ideologies in general?
Hm not sure that I do more than what you mention tries to emulate an emotional state and get people to act on you signaling things that aren't necessarily true about you.
Most people probably would benefit from working on their inner state first before trying to get people to act in a way based on a prescripted way of your acting.
Working on your emotional state let you live a life from a natural standpoint where you say, do and act on things that you feel, rather than what you have read you should do to get people to do X or Y.