(10-25-2022, 10:28 AM)dissonance Wrote:(10-25-2022, 01:14 AM)MrGnome Wrote:(10-24-2022, 11:54 PM)dissonance Wrote:(10-24-2022, 03:35 PM)Benjamin Wrote:Quote:I do know it would hurt the alpha male program but i have no idea how much damage it does to OCF4.
I better clarify this because unfortunately you don't seem aware of it. Which is fine because I got stuck in that pattern for a long time. So this is coming from a place of my own experience and knowledge.
I'm not sure why you have the impression that porn would just hurt Alpha Male V6. Does it also harm OF v4?
Yes.. but that's because porn usage harms your whole life. It drains your energy, your confidence, makes you feel weaker, causes you to feel more anxious in general and especially around women, gets you craving the next hit of dopamine, drains your drive in general.
And the best way I could explain it, and when I talked about it with my friend he agreed. It basically drains your desire to go out and engage with life.
It may sound like harsh thoughts about porn, but it is very damaging.
I don't have a specific video unfortunately, I haven't watched this guys videos but I do get his newsletter and it has some good stuff around porn usage and the issues it causes.
https://www.youtube.com/c/MarkQueppet/videos
Yeah man, if only I knew the detriments of porn as well as chronic over-masturbation (massively affecting testosterone and dopamine; both extremely important during puberty and entire teenage yrs) back around my ages of 10-20 lol...
Yeah I started at age 14 and I noticed the longer I did it the weirder my fetisches became.. So I hope I will be able to fix this.
You will. How old are you now?
I turned 32 last month,Hence why I got desperate about usings my experiences as fast and flawless as possible,Considering I dont have a career because I work to slow,I have no Girlfriend because I dont really know how to start conversations with strangers and I still live with my Mother even thought it's not that bad,I still want to get my stuff together..
I know alot of this is because of my Autism (PDD-NOS) but still I wanna find out what can be fixed and what not.