06-01-2022, 11:37 PM
Hi there,
I'm writing this not to put you down, but because I recognize myself in where you are. A few years back I lost faith in my own judgment, I messed up in life and stopped listening to myself as I stopped believing I could trust myself. I got stuck in a rut where I needed other peoples Input to feel sure that what I was doing was the right thing.
The problem with that is that you just keep feeding into your own insexuriry. At some point you need to start listening to yourself, even if it don't make you fully sure on a direction, pick one, and make it your own mission to evaluate if it's the right one or not. With out time, you can switch courses, but obly after you feel compelled to do so.
That's how you build independence and security in your own judgment. Make your own calls. Evaluate. Fail. Succeed. Make your own call. That the only way to get there.
Hope it can give you some food for thought.
I'm writing this not to put you down, but because I recognize myself in where you are. A few years back I lost faith in my own judgment, I messed up in life and stopped listening to myself as I stopped believing I could trust myself. I got stuck in a rut where I needed other peoples Input to feel sure that what I was doing was the right thing.
The problem with that is that you just keep feeding into your own insexuriry. At some point you need to start listening to yourself, even if it don't make you fully sure on a direction, pick one, and make it your own mission to evaluate if it's the right one or not. With out time, you can switch courses, but obly after you feel compelled to do so.
That's how you build independence and security in your own judgment. Make your own calls. Evaluate. Fail. Succeed. Make your own call. That the only way to get there.
Hope it can give you some food for thought.
