Becoming Fearless and living my authentic life(OF V3)

[Z-Man]

I just came to the realization that dating is a waste of time. Us men have to do everything. You have text,you have ask them out and pay. What do they do? Sometimes, you feel, like you need a reimbursement or refund for the date. It also, feels like they are not interested. It feels like all women are the same, everybody tells, when you find the right one everything is wonderful. How many years, how much wasted money will that take?


Anybody have advise?

Hmmm, waste of time? Debatable. Depends on what your goal is.
Companionship?
Fun?
A reason to go out?
A Bigger Ego, being seen together with the opposite sex?
Have someone to sit with you at a restaurant? I believe there was a Seinfeld episode about dining alone in a restaurant.

Sex? You'd be surprised how many of the opposite sex will say "Yes" without going on a date.

Marriage? A lot of people get married to save on taxes!  Being married has huge tax advantages versus being single.

Also, I've gone out with several of the opposite sex that refused to let me pay, that was their way of telling me, no sex.  Friend Zone.

Explain that sex without the date? I have never had anyone refuse to let me pay. At least, friend zone and not wasting money.

Sex without the date. So usually I'm in a situation where I met a woman and we are alone.  Very important to be alone so no one "cock blocks" you.

As we are talking and I can tell she is comfortable being around me.  I wait for the conversation to stall.  
Silence - she is trying to think of something to say.

Then I ask, "Do you ever think about sex?"
Her: "All the time." or "Sometimes."
Then I pause for like 10 to 15 seconds
Me: "Do you want to have sex?"

The last women I was with, I was watching a movie and couldn't even get her to hold my hand. She was cross her legs and playing with her bracelet. I was on a loveseat at my house. I tried to hold her hand and it didn't work. I meet her on Plenty of fish dating site. The first was a meet up at Starbucks. When she left I tried to kiss her and got a pet on the lips. She doesn't even text me unless I text first It;s like pulling teeth. Heaven for bit I brought up sex. How young are these women that you are talking about? This women was 54.