12-29-2021, 03:46 PM
Day 88/180
I met another cool girl who was 10 years older than me. We vibed on some great topics and she invited me back to her place. Unfortunately, I did not find her attractive and there was no alcohol involved. It would have felt awkward / unnatural if I tried to make any sexual advances. Also, It was only towards the very end when she started to show some attraction towards me through physical touch so I was unclear about how she felt towards me. The main lesson I learned is that I need to really work on my listening skills because most of the damn time I am trying yo think of what to say instead of actually being present with the person.
I met another cool girl who was 10 years older than me. We vibed on some great topics and she invited me back to her place. Unfortunately, I did not find her attractive and there was no alcohol involved. It would have felt awkward / unnatural if I tried to make any sexual advances. Also, It was only towards the very end when she started to show some attraction towards me through physical touch so I was unclear about how she felt towards me. The main lesson I learned is that I need to really work on my listening skills because most of the damn time I am trying yo think of what to say instead of actually being present with the person.
