08-10-2021, 11:15 AM
(08-09-2021, 01:29 PM)tolgaocal80 Wrote:(08-09-2021, 12:37 PM)Raykon Wrote: Had another female message me randomly on Facebook, Someone I never met in person but had briefly spoke to on social media once a year & half ago.
Been doing allot of introspection today & focusing on the direction I want to take my life, & finding balance with the different aspects of my life, like my music, gym, business, social life. Ect.
I'm writing a book now too, not sure if I told you guys, & starting a Youtube Channel, I have 1 page written so far, a rough draft, going to re analyze it & re write it, going to spend the next 6 months - year on this book, make sure the content I put out is of value & worthy of being published.
It's going to help me market my Dating/Attraction & Life Coaching Business. I'm excited about it.
hey Raykon it is really good to see your doing your thing,
I am also want to start a YouTube channel not now but definitly gonna do this. Share with us, youtube channel really helps if it is get known by a lot people, free advertising.
would you say, now you got that "drive" for life? you know passion for growing, creating, living?
I've always had a drive for learning & growing, But over the last few years, I had fallen in toxic relationships, crime, depression, severe anxiety & it became crippling, Overcome Fear has allowed me to heal & no longer live in anxiety & in my head. My self esteem is at an all time high, it's not JUST because of OF v3, Also the other tools i've been using such as Sedona Method & working out.
I remember on my Manifestation board when I was 19 I had posted a picture of a body type that was similar to mine, I have that body type now ahah :
![Big Grin Big Grin](https://subliminal-talk.com/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
It's nice to see you reach your goals. Women were all I wanted growing up, Having sex with my 10/10 Colombiana in Medellin was an unreal experience, I remember while I was doing it, I was thinking "holy shit, I'm actually doing what I always had wanted to do now, I'm having sex with an absolute beauty" *without paying for it"
& as for the Youtube Channel, Yes I would love to share with you guys, It's a work in progress right now, I'm still in the brainstorm part, currently I'm manifesting money into my life, & I'm working on something as we speak.
So once I get the money, I will be buying a good camera & investing into graphic design & video designers to help make my content super professional. & I know i can come up with great content for Dating/Attraction, I studied this stuff for years & I've seen what other coaches put out, I know everything that they speak about, It's very rare for me to learn something new when they make videos.
Obviously there is more for me to learn, but I am at a good place now where I teach men to improve there chances of success & change there habits, & mindset when it comes to dating women. & also unlearn the misogyny & toxic info that allot of "pick up artists" teach men. I went through years of trial & error using this bad knowledge that I had learned. That tends to only work on insecure women anyways, & generally just night game.
I'm all about being honest, & expressing your true self, working on your raising your value as a men by working on yourself, & attracting higher quality, healthier women.
I did the most amazing approach of my life the other night, at that mexican rave, went up this super model & just the way I stood there in front of her, pure confidence, looking into her eyes, I could feel her energy & she could feel mine, It was the most amazing feeling, I could sense attraction & I had a great response from her, but she said said she's here with her boyfriend & pointed at him, he was standing right there, she said sorry.
I walked away.
Years ago even 2 years ago, approaching a women gave me allot of anxiety, & I wasn't able to express myself authentically, or be comfortable being myself & being grounded. I used to be a absolute mess with woman back in the day, I'm surprised I would get laid occasionally. & the shitty pick up artist techniques do work sometimes, but it never allows you to have a real girlfriend because they will sense your insecurity & fakeness once they start spending more time with you.
It's impossible to fake it till you make it with women. they can sense so much, they are way more empathetic then majority of men.
I am like a women in that sense, super empathetic, Can sense when a person is disgusted, angry, sad, annoyed, intimidated. By the smallest change in there face & mannerisms. It's a blessing & a curse.
Was a curse for the most of my life, but now that I am grounded & confident, it's a blessing because I am good at flirting & socializing.
#end rant, I'm super excited for the future, I'm only 26 almost 27, (Dec26) It takes men usually allot longer to start to get to thsi point in life, I met a 34 year old recently who was inspiring to me, at 26 he never used to get laid or anything, now he's 34 & has sex with a new woman every week. Super nice guy, and hes not physically hot, he's fat. & average looking in other ways, Cute face tho.
looks don't matter nearly as much as personality.