08-06-2021, 08:40 AM
If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't go as far as to say that relationship issues are a direct result of UMS. There are far too many variables to conclude that. But on UMS, I've had sort of a relationship scare myself. At the one moment in time, a couple of weeks or so ago, I thought my relationship to be going nowhere and prepared for the end. But things turned out okay with some open, honest conversation. We cut all the fluff, to say so. As a result, I have much more time and energy to spare to achieve UMS that was aimlessly spent on the relationship. My situation is different than you in many ways, but just to let you know, you are not entirely alone.
Perhaps you two had problems that went unresolved for a long time, perhaps things were taken for granted, etc. No one can say for sure. Not us, definitely. But if things are going the way they are, it's probably for the better no matter how hard it may seem to believe that. I hope you overcome your pain and use it as a catalyst to achieve your goals.
Perhaps you two had problems that went unresolved for a long time, perhaps things were taken for granted, etc. No one can say for sure. Not us, definitely. But if things are going the way they are, it's probably for the better no matter how hard it may seem to believe that. I hope you overcome your pain and use it as a catalyst to achieve your goals.
