05-29-2021, 05:44 PM
Onto cycle 3 day 1 loop
What i can say is as much as you dont feel much when listening when you think of how you interact with others the subliminal is working, there are times i still hesitate but im relaxed when in public talking loudly and about all sorts of things i used to worry what others would think when hearing it if listening to our conversation.
I also asked a lady at the bar what days off she gets so a little bit of a chat considering very busy, was thinking of asking for a drink but hesitated but also busy at the time so not the best chance to do that either.
But the thought was there, and asking about when she gets time off and able to talk to others about certain topics in public didnt seem to bother me.
I would like to increase number of days listening to days off maybe like 5 days on 2 off, not sure if that would be smart maybe shannon could add his thoughts on doing that.
I would still stay with 1 loop just add from 2 days to 5 days with 2 days of rest each weekend, or if i was to start that from today would be sunday to thursday with friday saturday rest days.
i did hesitate with flirting with a lady the other day and made a comment about normally like to get to know someone a bit first, bad mistake there because im 100% certain she was asking me over for some fun.
Live and learn though but that was only after just 2 cycles so the more time i have on this the betteri think it will work on my fears and hesitations. If i can get over some of those that hold me back i think my confidence around women would skyrocket, i get plenty of looks i just havent acted on any of them yet that would be the biggest issue holding me back which im sure OF will sort out in time.
What i can say is as much as you dont feel much when listening when you think of how you interact with others the subliminal is working, there are times i still hesitate but im relaxed when in public talking loudly and about all sorts of things i used to worry what others would think when hearing it if listening to our conversation.
I also asked a lady at the bar what days off she gets so a little bit of a chat considering very busy, was thinking of asking for a drink but hesitated but also busy at the time so not the best chance to do that either.
But the thought was there, and asking about when she gets time off and able to talk to others about certain topics in public didnt seem to bother me.
I would like to increase number of days listening to days off maybe like 5 days on 2 off, not sure if that would be smart maybe shannon could add his thoughts on doing that.
I would still stay with 1 loop just add from 2 days to 5 days with 2 days of rest each weekend, or if i was to start that from today would be sunday to thursday with friday saturday rest days.
i did hesitate with flirting with a lady the other day and made a comment about normally like to get to know someone a bit first, bad mistake there because im 100% certain she was asking me over for some fun.
Live and learn though but that was only after just 2 cycles so the more time i have on this the betteri think it will work on my fears and hesitations. If i can get over some of those that hold me back i think my confidence around women would skyrocket, i get plenty of looks i just havent acted on any of them yet that would be the biggest issue holding me back which im sure OF will sort out in time.
