Attract Your Perfect Wife

[tolgaocal80]

Well maybe it works the other way... Have kids live happily and then at last you make her you married wife..

I mean everything looks good... So.. Who knows

A man has to properly vet a woman for at least 12 months before considering to upgrade her to girlfriend status.  After that about 5 years of vetting to become a wife.  Most men obviously don't do this which is why they're getting destroyed in divorce like they do.

So having a child first that's not actually a bad thing as it will keep her around to try to earn marriage.  Just don't marry her right away just cause she's had a child.  You still have to properly vet her and she has to earn the title of your wife.

this "vetting 5 years" is depends on the culture you live, for country I live 5 years too much, if you are a good observer 2 years max is enough for marriage otherwise, after 4 years or 5 years if you "find" something about her, what you will do? will you break up? your 5 years are gone for nothing.

and I gotta tell you this attutide " So having a child first that's not actually a bad thing as it will keep her around to try to earn marriage. ", generally is quite beta male thinking pattern, this is quite manipulation. There is huge contradiction here