A Sexy Alex, stage 2: DMSI Journal (now 3.3.2!)

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@apollolux I apologize that I couldn't read the wall of text, but I had to stop at your statement that your goal from DMSI was to attract women who didn't want you for just your money.  I empathize to an extent, and it's too bad the women that entered your life during this time appeared to be using you.  But why would you set out to limit yourself in any way?  Use every possible advantage at your disposal, and if women find part of your attraction due to wealth, so be it.  Almost all women are attracted to wealth in a man.  It's the way of the world, and it's not going to change.  Yes there are women attracted to non wealthy men, for other reasons.  Other perceived or real advantages these women find value in.  You should make your money an advantage, not a decrement.  Women may well just want you for your money, but considerably less so if they see you as someone who has more to offer. 

Having money should give you freedom of choice and confidence.  Confidence is attractive to women. So is not having a scarcity mindset.  Having money suggests to women that you are capable of being successful, that you are successful, that you're a boss, and this is also desirable. 

If you make it an advantage, the right woman will desire you for your combination of confidence, success, boss mentality, and even being a provider.  The rest, personality, and ability to give the right amount of space so she chases you more (depending on the woman, this varies), is up to you with or without money. This doesn't mean just paying for everything she wants, make your own judgements. But start with your existing advantages.