11-02-2020, 06:54 AM
(This post was last modified: 11-02-2020, 06:58 AM by Mr_steevee.)
Yeah sounds like you wanted it too much .. sorry man 
but I feel you .. I always had problems with this (plus the fear of being left alone) and it got muuuuuch better with OF over the time. I remember situations in the past where I have been the total drama queen and in my mind there was only that woman and I couldn’t think about anything else. For me it was definitely fear related. The good thing is that even when I thought there might be no more perfect woman and she’s the only one suddenly there appeared a new girl in my life which made me forgot the old one (even without OF!) 
So I am sure that will be the case for you as well and when OF is working you will be free from neediness
Just keep on going man and I wish you all the best!
but I feel you .. I always had problems with this (plus the fear of being left alone) and it got muuuuuch better with OF over the time. I remember situations in the past where I have been the total drama queen and in my mind there was only that woman and I couldn’t think about anything else. For me it was definitely fear related. The good thing is that even when I thought there might be no more perfect woman and she’s the only one suddenly there appeared a new girl in my life which made me forgot the old one (even without OF!) So I am sure that will be the case for you as well and when OF is working you will be free from neediness
Just keep on going man and I wish you all the best!
