10-08-2020, 04:56 PM
Overcoming Fear 5.75g.
-Mr_steevee said this here
Quote:So here we go - I will list the bigger ones
First of all it didn’t make me a ladies men or some kind celebrity (well that’s not the Programms goal right)
1. I like socializing much more. I now enjoy being around people. OF has helped me to be myself in social situations.
2. approach anxiety is almost gone. I have no problem approaching strangers anymore.
3. fear of driving is completely gone.
4. I masturbated a lot in the past. Now I reduced it to a healthy amount.
5. I am a perfectionist and always have been. But the need to do everything perfectly is not that much present anymore.
6. My attitude to life changed. I am muuuuuch more relaxed reacting to life’s circumstances.
7. jealousy is not an issue anymore.
8. In the past I sometimes got angry for no reason with my girlfriend. This is not the case anymore.
9. My mind and my thoughts are much more clear.
10. No more overthinking over everything
11. Flirting is now great fun and I noticed I am pretty good at it :-)
12. I don’t fear being left alone anymore. In the past this made me really needy in my relationships
All in all it allowed me to do things I wanted to do but hesitated to do. It changes your thought patterns a lot but it’s not that it hits you in the face. You have to watch very carefully. I suddenly noticed that things I didn’t do in the past are no problem anymore. I also stopped overthinking every bit and piece. If I want to do something I do it. Of course sometimes the nagging voice is still there but hey I have another 4 months ahead and it’s much more quiet than before. Due to the fact of being much more fearless my performance in my job has improved. But not only in my job but also in bed with my girlfriend. Expressing myself freely sexually has been a big one for me.
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