LTU 5 Journey

[Shannon]

For whatever reason I have been getting dmsi like results lately on LTU5.  Ioi’s from an array of different women of all ages and types.  There is one of interest though.  A 21 year old married girl has been showing a ton of interest.  She’s a friend of a friend so I see her occasionally socially.  She’s 7.5-8/10 depending on how she wears her hair.  Not a knockout by any stretch but super cool and cute.  She started texting me out of nowhere and our conversations are never overtly flirtatious or sexual but we text consistently everyday now.  She starts the conversation nearly 100% of the time.  I’m 38 and quite honestly the energy of a younger woman is quite energizing. We click extremely well and have been talking every day now for about a month. She never mentions her husband to me so I have no idea if he knows.  There’s a part of me that wants to ask if us talking is cool with her husband because I don’t want to cause her any trouble. But the other part of me wonders if she will think it’s odd I ask because we have only been platonic and just create a weirdness between us. Plus again she was the one who initiated the friendship. Idk any thoughts, opinions, advice?

Simply keep it platonic.  Always presume it's platonic, no matter what she does, unless and until she makes it blatantly and unmistakeably clear that it is not.  And until she's not married.  If it's not platonic, let her be the one to bring it forward as such, and be the one to refuse it on moral grounds unless and until she is not married.  Oh, and make friends with her husband.  Spend time with the two of them together.  Make sure she can't flirt without him knowing it.  After all, he might be okay with it.  And if not, you did the right thing.  That is my advice.