11-08-2019, 12:56 AM
(11-07-2019, 04:41 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: I am trying to let go of the self imposed limitation of needing to "convince" myself and others that I am worthy of being seen as a viable mating partner. To replace my need for external validation with internal validation that requires nothing to exist. To simply believe that I AM worthy of romantic and sexual attraction, as I am, without having to meet some sort of self imposed criteria and creating self limitations in the process. This is a work in progress, but I am confident that I can reach a point of self esteem that becomes internally generated. That is a goal of mine. Once this is accomplished, the external mirrors the internal. The question is: what stands in the way of achieving this goal? What is preventing me from letting these self limiting beliefs just fall away, as no longer being necessary?
I am also looking into transcendental meditation. Hopefully this practice (along with subliminal affirmation software and loving kindness/metta meditation) can help me achieve this state. Then, the external shall mirror the new internal state, and sexual and romantic abundance shall naturally come.
Question is: What's stopping me from making this change to myself?
Fear perhaps? If so, what can be done to end that?
I’m finding it useful to figure out WHY I have each fear/self lie/limiting belief. I’m looking at them in detail and saying “well that’s crap” and it seems to be sticking.
