07-01-2012, 05:20 PM
Stage 4 - Day 20,
Haven't seen the biggest changes lately. Had a random girl who I met in a bar a month ago and she texted me a week ago, around 3 in the morning if I could come over and give her a hug.
After that night she was very cold to my messages (twice) and eventually stopped responding. I asked for a reason because I was curious and she told me that it was revenge for all the men who have used her and that she had really nothing to give me.
I wasn't attached to her though and I was positive, so we "parted" on good terms.
There's not much ego left when going up and talking to women. It depends of the situation of course. If it's me who is taking the initiative I can be nervous some times but it has become very vague.. the feeling of nervousness.
Other than this.. I haven't noticed much change in this stage..
I've asked myself this question today, which I haven't done for a while: "What is important to me in my life?" and just really think about it for myself. The answer I found was quite interesting and I will spend more time on these things for sure...
I'll be in China from the 10. July till somewhere around August and I'm starting university when I come back home.. it's gonna be interesting
Planning to do WM when I'm done with SM...
Haven't seen the biggest changes lately. Had a random girl who I met in a bar a month ago and she texted me a week ago, around 3 in the morning if I could come over and give her a hug.
After that night she was very cold to my messages (twice) and eventually stopped responding. I asked for a reason because I was curious and she told me that it was revenge for all the men who have used her and that she had really nothing to give me.
I wasn't attached to her though and I was positive, so we "parted" on good terms.
There's not much ego left when going up and talking to women. It depends of the situation of course. If it's me who is taking the initiative I can be nervous some times but it has become very vague.. the feeling of nervousness.
Other than this.. I haven't noticed much change in this stage..
I've asked myself this question today, which I haven't done for a while: "What is important to me in my life?" and just really think about it for myself. The answer I found was quite interesting and I will spend more time on these things for sure...
I'll be in China from the 10. July till somewhere around August and I'm starting university when I come back home.. it's gonna be interesting
Planning to do WM when I'm done with SM...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
