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[Shannon]

LOL yeah, not sure what exact wording to use for the affirmation. Not really sure if deflowering a virgin is really such a big deal to me. There was just one woman in particular who I know is a virgin that I wanted to make my GF. Looks like I'm not ready to use the becoming method to do that though.

@Shannon  What exact affirmation should I say? And should I do it WHILE I'm imagining the scene or before or after or what?

Step one is to decide exactly what you want.  The Primary Key.  What one feature, trait or quality is most important to you?  Figure out your Primary Key.  Maybe you want a virgin, or a natural redhead, or a short girl, or a tall girl, or an Asian girl, or a girl with a Scottish brogue, or freckles.  

If you want to make that particular girl your girlfriend, using this method is dangerous until you're advanced enough that you really don't need to do it like that.  One of my instructors used to say, "Don't try to drive a nail with a nuclear bomb!"  When people first discover this sort of thing, they want to use it to do everything, even when a simple, mundane method works better, easier and more cheaply.  So it's better to just go get a hammer and hit the nail with it, metaphorically speaking.  Use the right tool for the job.

In other words... just let her know you like her, and try to get things going with her in a more normal way.

You don't need the method at all for that.  Just talk to her.  Get to know her.  Spend time with her.  Take steps to getting to where you want to be.  Ask for what you want, but know when and where and how to do that in the way that gets it for you.  Make sure she feels comfortable, instead of freaked out or awkward or afraid in response.  I'm guessing you don't have a lot of experience with women.