10-16-2019, 09:46 AM
Slowly I'm breaking free from the chains my mother have held me in. I can now sit at the dinner table not being so sucked into her victimhood and ability to make me feel less than when talking to me, and keeping my center and my opinions and not succumbing to her opinions or emotional drama. Had a good talk with my dad, and as soon as my dad and I start to talk about something, she get all "oh you are closing my out" and throwing victim-tantrums, leaving the table, picking everything up "because she has to as she is the house slave" and slamming things in the kitchen and murmuring negative things about my dad - you get the picture? Anyway my dad and I had a good talk and I didn't care as much about her behavior.
