09-03-2019, 05:27 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-03-2019, 05:27 PM by DavisMind91.)
Ever since LTU I've been learning more about game and how to apply it not just with women, but also in terms of self-empowerment. UMS seems to have taken this to a new level, and a different direction all at once. In the past, I was the type of person that "fell in love" with something or a woman, and therefore as time went on I found that thing or woman tougher to resist. Lately I've been having this theme pop up of seeking to understand things, situations, and people; as opposed to falling in love, or rather approaching it all from an emotional standpoint.
I've realized that "love" blinds you, assists you in creating negative and codependent attachments, knocks you off focus, at least that's been my experience for the most part. It keeps you from thinking clearly, especially when you're inexperienced and/or the feeling is strong. Now while; as a man, I can still show love (i.e. care for things and people in my domain), I should seek to remain grounded in my masculinity and make it my mission to UNDERSTAND what and who I'm dealing with FULLY. It is then, that a decision should be made on rather or not a situation, thing, or person can enhance my life on a long-term basis. If not, I simply dismiss them, and if so, then I show love by caring for these things and people, without losing my sense of self-respect. I feel this realization can be applied to every area of life, including business.
Makes sense because after all, if you choose to love something without understanding it first, then you're in love with your own idea, not the actual thing. That also applies to people and situations. Haven't listened to UMS for about 45 hours so I guess this philosophy is stemming from a bloom effect through a joint effort from both LTU5 and UMS. Seems I'm being guided to live more rationally; to keep myself from creating disadvantageous situations long-term, like I've done in the past. I'll be listening to some loops overnight, about 5 to 6. I'm typically drop-dead tired on my listening days, but I won't let that be the reason that I don't listen more. WITH UMS, I still have yet to establish a set routine, It's literally been a "go with the flow" type of listening situation with UMS for the past 3.5 weeks.
I've realized that "love" blinds you, assists you in creating negative and codependent attachments, knocks you off focus, at least that's been my experience for the most part. It keeps you from thinking clearly, especially when you're inexperienced and/or the feeling is strong. Now while; as a man, I can still show love (i.e. care for things and people in my domain), I should seek to remain grounded in my masculinity and make it my mission to UNDERSTAND what and who I'm dealing with FULLY. It is then, that a decision should be made on rather or not a situation, thing, or person can enhance my life on a long-term basis. If not, I simply dismiss them, and if so, then I show love by caring for these things and people, without losing my sense of self-respect. I feel this realization can be applied to every area of life, including business.
Makes sense because after all, if you choose to love something without understanding it first, then you're in love with your own idea, not the actual thing. That also applies to people and situations. Haven't listened to UMS for about 45 hours so I guess this philosophy is stemming from a bloom effect through a joint effort from both LTU5 and UMS. Seems I'm being guided to live more rationally; to keep myself from creating disadvantageous situations long-term, like I've done in the past. I'll be listening to some loops overnight, about 5 to 6. I'm typically drop-dead tired on my listening days, but I won't let that be the reason that I don't listen more. WITH UMS, I still have yet to establish a set routine, It's literally been a "go with the flow" type of listening situation with UMS for the past 3.5 weeks.
