Shifting Gears (LTU 5.0)

[Shannon]

She then looked at me again as if she were trying to verify rather or not I had just looked at her chest. I carried on as usual but she did stare one more time as I continued my social interaction with the other women. When she was finally walking out the door, she did something super weird, and turned back around to stare at me for about 4 full seconds before finally walking out. I ignored this but found it wired as hell. When I came back from lunch I caught  her staring a couple more times throughout the day but whatever.

This woman is very much interested and also very much inhibited for some reason.  She wants your attention, but doesn't have the confidence to be more direct.  She's getting more and more overt in how she tries to get it, but she's not likely to start being much more overt.

She's one you need to be careful with.  This type sometimes isn't stable mentally or emotionally and they can go off the deep end.  And sometimes, what you're dealing with is a genuinely submissive woman who can't bring herself to be more overt because it is her nature to be submissive.  The third type this might indicate is the woman who is just shy/has low self esteem/is insecure/thinks she isn't good enough compared to everyone else.  This type falls into two sub-categories: Hopeless and gem-in-the-rough.  

The hopeless ones, they almost never change because they focus so deeply and acutely on their fears and negative beliefs about themselves.  They need a lot of time and specialized attention and healing.  The gem-in-the-rough take to the right kind of treatment well and will heal and bloom beautifully under the guidance of someone who knows how to handle them the right way.  This type makes an excellent life mate choice, if you get her to (or help herself get to) where she needs to be.

I wouldn't just ignore her.  If I were you, I would start communicating with her in ways that break the ice and tell her (possibly directly, possibly not, depending on circumstances) that you know she's attracted (or at least wants your attention) and you want to know why she's so reserved instead of engaging you.  If you break the ice for her, you'll find out very quickly which type she is, and she may just be that rare gem of a genuine submissive or someone who just needs help blooming.

Of course if you don't know how to handle a genuine submissive or that's not your thing, that's not going to be of much value regardless.  But I smell a lot of potential in this one.  Just need to weed out the possibility that she's a crackpot first.