06-25-2019, 07:55 AM
Hi Shannon, i had one gf 10 years ago and she had to make the moves back then as i was quiet but at that stage we also didnt know about my beaing deaf to the level i was so just thought i was naturally a quiet person.
Im more talkative and confident then i was back then but still lack confidence in talking with women atleast initially and keeping conversation flowing too.
So thats where my sex and dating started and ended.
My biggest worry is probably kissing a woman as i can read lots on actual sex and all the moves and techniques etc but the simplest part kissing is what holds me back as i really dont want to make a fool of myself but also if i dont try wont ever know what to do.
Im someone that thinks and overthinks everything as you may of noticed from posts which is where the lacking of confidence is as i dont try things unless i know what im doing.
Also thinking more of the negative outcomes instead of positive ones which i got to get over too.
Im more talkative and confident then i was back then but still lack confidence in talking with women atleast initially and keeping conversation flowing too.
So thats where my sex and dating started and ended.
My biggest worry is probably kissing a woman as i can read lots on actual sex and all the moves and techniques etc but the simplest part kissing is what holds me back as i really dont want to make a fool of myself but also if i dont try wont ever know what to do.
Im someone that thinks and overthinks everything as you may of noticed from posts which is where the lacking of confidence is as i dont try things unless i know what im doing.
Also thinking more of the negative outcomes instead of positive ones which i got to get over too.
